haha chill out man

i dont understand why u all take this so seriously

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Do not follow where the path may lead.
Go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.

Because I dont like people looking down on others for not wanting to do something for a decent reason.
Exactly
That and it can end bad for obvious reasons....

I love the Fight Club connotations in this by the way, I love it and im guna share it with some people.

EDIT: My bad, didnt notice the back and forth opinion exchanges going on here. The use of the Fight Club-taoism approach here was really to emphasize how rebuilding yourself ground up is crucial; especially to those who have embedded themselves with negative thoughts and actions/reactions over many years. If you look at the original post as a raw, poetic motivator to induce change upon yourself, then at the end of the day, the opposing philosophies bouncing back and forth here come to a meeting point. Works for me.

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"This is your reality. It is what you make it"

Good post...
3 nights a week is about right. That's what Zebra (i'm pretty sure) said he did in the under21 convention. Some people have lives and limited resources... I'm a full time college student, and go to class even during summer.

But thursday, friday, and saturday nights are great (unless you have a test then i'd probably study). On thursday don't even have to drink.

The thing with 90% of newbies or even a little moderate (in what i've seen) is that we need at least a LITTLE something something of a drink to get that false confidence up a bit. I consider myself pretty darn confident but the alcohol gives me a nice little kick, it loosens me up a bit (and i'm sure i'll learn to do this WITHOUT alcohol).

But to save money: just get a cheap bottle of whatever (i'd get a $30 handle of SKYY) and just take a couple shots before you leave. Or get some cheap beer, have a few beers. So that at the venue, you only have to purchase 1 drink. Something to hold. Something to cherish as you go through your sets. I know last night I spent $10 at the bar and got 1 beer and 1 shot.... it's quite expensive. That's why my friends and I ALWAYS "pre game" before hand.

One of my buddies i've known since age 5 or something, is kind of in the game. He either has natural game, or won't let me know he's been reading up and practicing. He sleeps with a 36 year old milf hottie (7.5 or with fake tits (and he's 22). Maybe she's desperate, but either way its not bad. Anyway, he will always just get a glass of water and tip them $1..... and he always tells me to just get water. It adds ups

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"going to workout and shit." -stunt101 (PUA chat)

This is my first time using this forum. It's exactly what I've been looking for.

Because of my pathetic ego I've never been able to approach girls. I met someone last November who changed that. He very seriously told me to drop the girl I was dating cuz after our second date we hadn't had sex yet.

I didn't drop her (which paid off in the end) but the night after he said that I went out by myself and got laid with another girl. I lost my virginity that night.

At one point over the next month I had four girls at once (which I cut down to one again). I started reading Neil Strauss's "The Game". It's good but ultimately it taught me to tell my ego to shut the f*&k up, to laugh at my racing heart, to loosen my rigid body movements and to be what I wanted to be.

Go out sober, alone, learn to love the music. When the music is playing, dance.

I've just read...

"This is my motivation. Make it yours" by David~

... I'm outta here.

Dune

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Crush my ego, please.

This is pure gold, I will make this my motivation Sargent!

You're actually gonna go with this?

its your turn to speak when you quit complaining about how hard it is to socialize

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East Bay Area, CA

I'll speak whenever the fuck I want to. With that said, I've been over my shyness for little over a month <_<

/golf clap

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East Bay Area, CA

/golf clap

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hes nto looking down hes just trying to motivate some people in a very forcefull way, and i havent read the rest of this thread tbh if hes saying other stuff to make it seem like his looking down on us for not taking his challange. well thats just the way some people work ide be pissed if people dismissed a challange i issued. you may have a point but honestly theres no point in arguing with him about it.

p.s. if he issues a challange its probably because hes a very agressive/competitive person if youve met any of these in real life there all like this. think about it.

p.p.s stop bitching about it, im not coming abck to this post so feel free to flame me all you like

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Do not follow where the path may lead.
Go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.

everybody relax.

if you dont agree with something, share it in a polite way.

i post to remind myself of who i am and what i stand for. if you take anything from it, cool.

if you dont, move on with your life. no need to start all this.

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I'm addicted to facing my fears.