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The way this works with my game is that the outside of the chest--the superficial playboy vibe I tend to get pigeonholed with-- serves to lower her expectations of the true depth of my character.
Do you realize that the playboy vibe that you give or not putting your "best foot forward" would disinterest and push away girls who may otherwise would have been a perfect match with the real hopeless romantic you !!
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In other words, about the time she thinks she has me figured out, I show her a whole world of value she never would have thought I had to offer.
I agree with this part & have always been practising it without giving a 'name'. And it makes sense too...
Hence, I would say, that in your interaction with the girl if you can figure out the 2-3 things in you that might interest her then you end up revealing say 1 of them and keep her hooked and make her work for the remaining 2.
I think we are all agreeing on not revealing everything to the girl
and making her work for it. But where I disagree is with the whole notion of keeping your BEST trait to your chest etc etc..
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