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PostPosted: Wed Dec 24, 2008 4:21 pm 
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Why lie to women, or go for girls with bfs? It confuses me that people within the community behave this way. The skills we learn enable us to pick the best girls. So why would you want a dishonest girl, or to compromise your morals just to get laid. None of which is alpha.
If you were an amazing hunter, you would not hunt the sick/lame beasts. Nor would you go poaching in private enclosed areas.
BFed women are women who have an opportunity to trade up before getting committed. Why would I trust a woman who traded up to me? Because I am the best she will ever find and there is no trading up from me.

Women are not animals that need to be hunted. They are human beings with feelings and the ability to choose.


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What are you talking about? Attraction is not a choice.

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What are you talking about? Attraction is not a choice.
but you can choose what to do with that attraction.

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One thing I've also noticed is most of the assholes who treat women bad and brag about how many ONSs they've had are NATURALS. Now I'm not trying to insult anyone is naturally good because natural game is always cool but it seems the guys who use canned openers and pre-planned lines tend to be nicer because they know what it's like to be lonely and many of them want long term relationships. I also believe there is nothing wrong with having a ONS or being friends with benefits as long as you don't trick and manipulate the woman and make her think that this will turn into something more then just sex. Those kinds of people are disgusting and have no place in our community. Tricking and manipulating someone is never cool.
You haven't been around very long my friend. Many guys actually take their previous pain and loneliness out on women by not caring about hurting them and just doing whatever it takes to get laid. Some are outright cruel in their methods and even smug about that fact.

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You haven't been around very long my friend. Many guys actually take their previous pain and loneliness out on women by not caring about hurting them and just doing whatever it takes to get laid. Some are outright cruel in their methods and even smug about that fact.
and this is why [many] girls are afraid of PUA.

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PostPosted: Thu Dec 25, 2008 8:23 pm 
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You haven't been around very long my friend. Many guys actually take their previous pain and loneliness out on women by not caring about hurting them and just doing whatever it takes to get laid. Some are outright cruel in their methods and even smug about that fact.
and this is why [many] girls are afraid of PUA.
Not affraid, just have negative stero types about us.

Without explination, if you tell some1 your a PUA they think you are player, manipulative, man whore, etc etc. Negative sterotype.
If only the media would speak to people like Sean Messenger etc :cry:


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From my experience over the past year and a half, I feel like the PUAs I meet are BETTER than they used to be.

Most guys I meet these days are cool, appreciate women, but just don't know how to master this area of their life.

There aren't many of the "cave dwelling, world of warcraft" stereotypes like the stories in the olden days...

Also, being that this is my career, I have to explain what I do to non-community people all the time. I have found that "the community" is only getting more and more accepted in mainstream culture.

Most think it is interesting, not dirty or manipulative.

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