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I am with my gf and her family in Tahoe till Friday. And yes, she's beautiful, more athletic than I am, has her doctorate and own practice, own house car, ambitious all that shit. Plus she's sweet, caring, funny, likes the shit I like, we travel together and classy. And before I met her, I was dating girls who had all their shit together too. My point is, even if you're pulling, you don't have options. From what you've descibed about this girl, she just has what she's supposed to. Car, job, not Kim Kardashian, but it's basic shit.
Since it is the net, I am not looking to google map her address, location, etc. She is six figure or damn close to it, attractive, in her 20s, works out, we have a fair bit in common, ambitious, independent beyond a bunch of other things. There is something I notice about quality women. Women who have their shit handled. They are responsive. There is less bullshit. Response time is fast. It seems worth the time. I have not traveled as much as I like and we both intend to do some of that. Its fresh. I am impartial regardless of the outcome but, I am definitely going to see what happens.
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Maybe she is amazing to you because your other options are crack heads, but then you should work on getting better options. It's not rare to find a women with that stuff, maybe look at where you're meeting women.
The other woman I mentioned I pulled wanted children turning me off from full closing. Oral sex is always a great alternative. I do believe there are more and more low status women, women that preach independence and not being a slut when in fact, the obvious would be self evident.
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You should never have oneitis for a girl you havent even gone on a date with. Even on an amazing date, you shouldnt have oneitis. And if you do, it's due to a lack of options.
Like I said, I grounded myself with meditation, surrender, and letting go. No matter what happens, I am enjoying the experience. As I am single, I continue to live that single life but, as I stated, the experiences of recent days has amplified the desire to see what is there with this woman.
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Having standards is great, but yours sound like basic requirements. If this woman is special because she meets basic requirements, it means you should be meeting women elsewhere from where you're currently meeting them. When you are dating either feminists or KK type girls, the problem isn't with women, it's with you for fishing from these pools of women. So, if you're serious abt dating quality women, first step is to go to places where quality women go to. You can't tell me that whatever city you in is just KKardashian types or women without jobs. You just have to find them.
Tons of single moms, women with multiple children, different baby fathers, welfare, heavy mental health issues, meds, drug use, etc.
Most are a dime a dozen. Its nice meeting alternatives. There are two genuine prospects I met recently I intend to follow up with over the holidays. Several already I am seeing but, I have no long term interests here and I have been honest about that. I am just in a great place in my life and women seem to want to be apart of that. I have never intended to game forever. Its been awhile since I got into a relationship. I find that most guys who get into relationships lose their ability to game and when it ends, they were worst off then when they first started.
The situation would have to be great to even consider indulging in settling down even if just temporary. As I backwards rationalize, it sounds more like a mini crush if anything at all. I had a summer pickup where I was interested in the girl, I wanted to see her, and we met sort like the scene from my username. It just did not take off. The encounter was dull. She was really insecure and the sex was bad because of it. Regardless, I am happy I had the experience because I am not wondering what could have or would have happened. I am always happy for the experiences.