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fishinwomen - How is it the guys fault? If the wife has integrity she would file for divorce before getting another dick in her mouth.
Not saying it's only the guy's fault, but come on, let's be honest. Most guys are not too good at relationships and understanding their girlfriends. Yes, this doesn't justify cheating, but women will always be women. They're too emotional.
I call big, fat, stinking bullshit on this one.
If you believe women are too emotional too keep their orifices away from a foreign cock, honestly, you deserve to be cheated on.
It's easy to bury your head in the sand and rationalize cheating with a patronizing statement, but the truth is there are millions and millions of women who have been in bad relationships and never cheated. I guess those women are just not women, huh? Not emotional enough.
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that's true, and that's why when a woman cheats it's WAAAY worst, when a man cheats it's "usually" because the girl looks better or his wife does him really bad, when a woman cheats the husband could be damn near perfect but mr smooth might come around and show her a new side of life, and leave the husband there thinking "what did i do wrong" which KILLS trust me....
I, as a person who has experienced this in my family, wish you from the bottom of my heart to have a mother/sister who gets cheated on, and see first hand if it's worse or not. Be sure to ask her if she is uglier than the other women, or did she do him bad enough to warrant the cheating.


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I call big, fat, stinking bullshit on this one.
If you believe women are too emotional too keep their orifices away from a foreign cock, honestly, you deserve to be cheated on.
It's easy to bury your head in the sand and rationalize cheating with a patronizing statement, but the truth is there are millions and millions of women who have been in bad relationships and never cheated. I guess those women are just not women, huh? Not emotional enough.
Exactly. Women love drama. That emotional roller coaster ride is a potent drug that keeps them loyal along with great bedroom skills.

PUA is just teaching noobs how to give pleasure and drama to women at certain boundaries so women are better than when we found them.

If a man cannot give a woman the drama that she craves for and a good, regular pussy pounding, then it's the man's fault. On the other hand, it's usually the woman's fault when she doesn't break up with the boyfriend or divorces the husband before sampling the cocks of the entire San Jose, California Fire Department.

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I call big, fat, stinking bullshit on this one.
If you believe women are too emotional too keep their orifices away from a foreign cock, honestly, you deserve to be cheated on.
It's easy to bury your head in the sand and rationalize cheating with a patronizing statement, but the truth is there are millions and millions of women who have been in bad relationships and never cheated. I guess those women are just not women, huh? Not emotional enough.
Exactly. Women love drama. That emotional roller coaster ride is a potent drug that keeps them loyal along with great bedroom skills.
I think I didn't make myself clear enough.
They don't cheat. They dump.
For your information, a bad relationship to a woman is not the one that is exciting, rather the contrary. There are women who prefer felicity to roller-coaster, but they are usually introverted, ergo rare.
I used to believe drama-craving is a stereotype that men invented, but, unfortunately, most of my female friends proved me wrong. Most women crave outside stimuli.
And while there is the rare woman who can't be bothered with drama, I assure you there is no woman who can tolerate bad bedroom skills. Ask my ex.


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I think I didn't make myself clear enough.
They don't cheat. They dump.
For your information, a bad relationship to a woman is not the one that is exciting, rather the contrary. There are women who prefer felicity to roller-coaster, but they are usually introverted, ergo rare.
I used to believe drama-craving is a stereotype that men invented, but, unfortunately, most of my female friends proved me wrong. Most women crave outside stimuli.
And while there is the rare woman who can't be bothered with drama, I assure you there is no woman who can tolerate bad bedroom skills. Ask my ex.
It's clear as the bluest skies. Most women in a bad relationship get into another bad relationship after they have dumped the first. Again, most women are addicted to that emotional roller coaster ride.

On the other hand, men love to rationalize a lot. "She left me because she found a lover that's hung as a horse. I need to have a bigger cock." Penis enlargers sell for a reason and you won't see any vaginal enlargement products out there in the market. But look at more emotional products for women and there's your answer; for instance, diet books, anti-depression products and so on.

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Diet, silicone, or penis enlarger - they all are on the market to give a boost in confidence (and confidence is an emotional state) as of the ability to attract the other sex. Which is amazing, provided that most don't work, and yet, they still are sold.

Anti-depressants are prescription drugs. They're not "emotional boosters", they serve the purpose of treating a mental condition. Unlike diet pills and penis enlargers, they have an effect. Unless you are a professional, I strongly advise you to refrain from discussing them. They're my territory.
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Most women in a bad relationship get into another bad relationship after they have dumped the first.
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Diet, silicone, or penis enlarger - they all are on the market to give a boost in confidence (and confidence is an emotional state) as of the ability to attract the other sex. Which is amazing, provided that most don't work, and yet, they still are sold.

Anti-depressants are prescription drugs. They're not "emotional boosters", they serve the purpose of treating a mental condition. Unlike diet pills and penis enlargers, they have an effect. Unless you are a professional, I strongly advise you to refrain from discussing them. They're my territory.
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Most women in a bad relationship get into another bad relationship after they have dumped the first.
Correct. I never argued that.
Emotional roller coaster ride = Up and down, up and down = Drama

Yep, not just up or boosted emotions. It's the emotional downs as well. Most women love drama. Most women are more emotional than men. Period.

Most men stay away from drama so they can focus on logical things. Most men are logical. Period.

These are generalities. There will always be exceptions. But it's mainly the truth nonetheless.

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Most women love drama.
And you are attracted to them? You, sir, have my sincere condolences.

BTW, in less developed countries, like mine, this behavior and drama craving is less prevalent in both genders. I guess if people have a life that is hard enough, you have no time for bullshit. And if you don't, you are neck deep in drama aka first world problems.


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Most women love drama.
And you are attracted to them? You, sir, have my sincere condolences.

BTW, in less developed countries, like mine, this behavior and drama craving is less prevalent in both genders. I guess if people have a life that is hard enough, you have no time for bullshit. And if you don't, you are neck deep in drama aka first world problems.
Most of the women who love drama have beautiful asses, nice tits and tight pussies. They are very feminine. The women who are very logical like men are downright ugly and not sexually appealing. They are very masculine.

I prefer feminine women every time. I also use Wolfwoodd's Drama Free Relationship Guide. I give girls drama and stay away from getting embroiled in it.

Back to the thread topic. Does a player stop being a player even when married? No. If you want to keep your woman, give her the drama she wants every once in a while.

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I agree that the drama women are usually hotter. Masculinity and testosterone is what makes us drama free and logical. So logical women tend to be more masculine with higher levels of testosterone. This has one benefit. They are hornier if they have higher testosterone.

What do you get if you combine the drama bullshit with masculinity and testosterone?.... A feminist. The worst of both worlds.


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good girls in bad relationships stay because the emotional part of them want to change that guy and not give up, the see it as a challenge more than love plus the ups and downs from the bad relationships gives them all types of feelings because to them the goods greatly outdo the bad(from what i've heard) or some girls who had some good dick and want to keep that dick

where as good guys who get cheated on usually stay because they think their girl is just going through some stuff and it's usually pride that stops them from leaving.....or they're some weak guy who never had pussy before and wants to keep that pussy

SEX IS A VERY STRONG MOTIVATOR lmfao

thats why they say before you make a big choice about a relationship, you should masturbate...that should be the only time you do it also

then again about relationships im usually wrong

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fishinwomen - How is it the guys fault? If the wife has integrity she would file for divorce before getting another dick in her mouth.
Not saying it's only the guy's fault, but come on, let's be honest. Most guys are not too good at relationships and understanding their girlfriends. Yes, this doesn't justify cheating, but women will always be women. They're too emotional.
I call big, fat, stinking bullshit on this one.
If you believe women are too emotional too keep their orifices away from a foreign cock, honestly, you deserve to be cheated on.
It's easy to bury your head in the sand and rationalize cheating with a patronizing statement, but the truth is there are millions and millions of women who have been in bad relationships and never cheated. I guess those women are just not women, huh? Not emotional enough.
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that's true, and that's why when a woman cheats it's WAAAY worst, when a man cheats it's "usually" because the girl looks better or his wife does him really bad, when a woman cheats the husband could be damn near perfect but mr smooth might come around and show her a new side of life, and leave the husband there thinking "what did i do wrong" which KILLS trust me....
I, as a person who has experienced this in my family, wish you from the bottom of my heart to have a mother/sister who gets cheated on, and see first hand if it's worse or not. Be sure to ask her if she is uglier than the other women, or did she do him bad enough to warrant the cheating.
Okay... I think you majorly misunderstood my point. I didn't elaborate, but now I will. What I'm saying is that men and women cheat for both the same and for different reasons too.

On one hand, there's being unsatisfied. Unsatisfied men and women will either stay in the bad relationship and continue being miserable, break up, or cheat.

The other reason is different. For women, it is mostly that their relationship is "too safe". She is not afraid to lose the man and therefore, when temptation comes, the only women who will not cheat are rationalist and judging personality types(these are psychological terms, I'm not going to get into it now, but these are personality types who usually put morals before emotions). For men, it is mostly what we call "hunter instincts", an inability to continue a monogamous relationship.

My point about them being emotional was to realise that just because she is acting/looking okay, it doesn't mean she really is. She can pretend for months or even years, but it's always going to be there, and one day, she will have enough either breaking up, or cheating. I said "let's be more critical". I meant that let's be more critical with both ourselves and the woman because cheating is only one person's responsibility but getting to the point where cheating would occure is always both's. And you can't fix your partner's faults, only yours.

Anyway, most of the cheating is due to bad screeing in the first place.

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Basically, there are just two things that have to be maintained to keep a high quality woman long-term.
1. Sexual attraction. If she loses this, it's a ticking time bomb. She'll either dump you or cheat. The time scale may stretch out for a while, even a few years, but it is inevitable if you lose this.
2. You must enhance her life in ways other than sex. This can cut in a few ways, so I don't want to be overly specific. You may bring good lifestyle or maybe emotional and child raising support. Different things can fit here. However it's viewed, you must be significantly making her life better than if she wasn't with you.

That's basically it. There are no sure things in life. You could do everything right, and she still might randomly hookup with a meth dealer. There are two people in a relationship, and there is nothing you can do to ensure someone else does something. Just as there is nothing she can do to ensure you'll always be there with her.

But from what I see, the majority of marriages fail in one or (usually) both of those two categories. More often than not, I see marriages with no sexual attraction and neither of them are particularly enhancing the other's life. In many cases I see that not only are they not enhancing each other's lives, they would be better off alone. Part of that is poor mate selection, a lot of it is selfishness and just not even trying to treat their spouse as a partner.

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