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fishinwomen - How is it the guys fault? If the wife has integrity she would file for divorce before getting another dick in her mouth.
Not saying it's only the guy's fault, but come on, let's be honest. Most guys are not too good at relationships and understanding their girlfriends. Yes, this doesn't justify cheating, but women will always be women. They're too emotional.
I call big, fat, stinking bullshit on this one.
If you believe women are too emotional too keep their orifices away from a foreign cock, honestly, you deserve to be cheated on.
It's easy to bury your head in the sand and rationalize cheating with a patronizing statement, but the truth is there are millions and millions of women who have been in bad relationships and never cheated. I guess those women are just not women, huh? Not emotional enough.
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that's true, and that's why when a woman cheats it's WAAAY worst, when a man cheats it's "usually" because the girl looks better or his wife does him really bad, when a woman cheats the husband could be damn near perfect but mr smooth might come around and show her a new side of life, and leave the husband there thinking "what did i do wrong" which KILLS trust me....
I, as a person who has experienced this in my family, wish you from the bottom of my heart to have a mother/sister who gets cheated on, and see first hand if it's worse or not. Be sure to ask her if she is uglier than the other women, or did she do him bad enough to warrant the cheating.
Okay... I think you majorly misunderstood my point. I didn't elaborate, but now I will. What I'm saying is that men and women cheat for both the same and for different reasons too.
On one hand, there's being unsatisfied. Unsatisfied men and women will either stay in the bad relationship and continue being miserable, break up, or cheat.
The other reason is different. For women, it is mostly that their relationship is "too safe". She is not afraid to lose the man and therefore, when temptation comes, the only women who will not cheat are rationalist and judging personality types(these are psychological terms, I'm not going to get into it now, but these are personality types who usually put morals before emotions). For men, it is mostly what we call "hunter instincts", an inability to continue a monogamous relationship.
My point about them being emotional was to realise that just because she is acting/looking okay, it doesn't mean she really is. She can pretend for months or even years, but it's always going to be there, and one day, she will have enough either breaking up, or cheating. I said "let's be more critical". I meant that let's be more critical with both ourselves and the woman because cheating is only one person's responsibility but getting to the point where cheating would occure is always both's. And you can't fix your partner's faults, only yours.
Anyway, most of the cheating is due to bad screeing in the first place.