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My view is this...
It is a bad idea because she won't tell you everything she does in her personal or private life, and you shouldn't tell her everything about yours either!
For example, does she tell you about her menstral cycle in graphic detail? Probably not! Just as you shouldn't go into detail about how you wipe your ass! It's the same concept,(I know I'm being a little crass, but I am trying to make a point.) so when someone says: Yeah, it's okay to tell everything that PUAs do, they make things harder than necessary for others of this community. In short, I wouldn't recommend it. That, and it's afc behavior to tel all of your secrets to someone who isn't as potentially invested as you may be in the relationship.
We don't talk abut wiping our ass becuase it is irrelvant, we allready know our partners do it, and it is flat out disgusting. PU is a decent slice of my life and it probably is in everyone else's, its a part of who you are. You don't have to say of the bat to everyone, but if you are going to spend time with someone, well they kind of have a right to know about who you are.
Why are we worried is what we are doing a secret?
I really find this "OH NOES OUR SECRET CULT MIGHT BE DISCOVERED!!!11!SHIFTONE!1!" attitude abit childish and well.... ...insecure.
The majority of us are just basically new-age dating instructors. We just do what all human beings do take advantage of our abilities.