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PostPosted: Tue Jul 22, 2008 8:57 am 
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eh, did some research and learned a lot.


anyone ever picked up an hb 9 with being direct?


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eh, did some research and learned a lot.


anyone ever picked up an hb 9 with being direct?
Since when did looks matter?

HB1-10 it will work.


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eh, did some research and learned a lot.


anyone ever picked up an hb 9 with being direct?
Since when did looks matter?

HB1-10 it will work.
what i mean is what different lines do you say to an hb9 that differs from a hb1-8 or something. also, what do you say to them when being direct?


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My view is this...
It is a
bad idea because she won't tell you everything she does in her personal or private life, and you shouldn't tell her everything about yours either!
For example, does she tell you about her menstral cycle in graphic detail? Probably not! Just as you shouldn't go into detail about how you wipe your ass! It's the same concept,(I know I'm being a little crass, but I am trying to make a point.) so when someone says: Yeah, it's okay to tell everything that PUAs do, they make things harder than necessary for others of this community. In short, I wouldn't recommend it. That, and it's afc behavior to tel all of your secrets to someone who isn't as potentially invested as you may be in the relationship.

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what i mean is what different lines do you say to an hb9 that differs from a hb1-8 or something. also, what do you say to them when being direct?

Nothing differs at all in what you say, it just means HB1-6/7 you're lying becuase you don't really find her that attractive.

Direct- "You are sexy, I am going to get too know you, so tell me abit about yourself"

indirect/direct cross-breed - use situational opener like "nice scarf"


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My view is this...
It is a
bad idea because she won't tell you everything she does in her personal or private life, and you shouldn't tell her everything about yours either!
For example, does she tell you about her menstral cycle in graphic detail? Probably not! Just as you shouldn't go into detail about how you wipe your ass! It's the same concept,(I know I'm being a little crass, but I am trying to make a point.) so when someone says: Yeah, it's okay to tell everything that PUAs do, they make things harder than necessary for others of this community. In short, I wouldn't recommend it. That, and it's afc behavior to tel all of your secrets to someone who isn't as potentially invested as you may be in the relationship.
We don't talk abut wiping our ass becuase it is irrelvant, we allready know our partners do it, and it is flat out disgusting. PU is a decent slice of my life and it probably is in everyone else's, its a part of who you are. You don't have to say of the bat to everyone, but if you are going to spend time with someone, well they kind of have a right to know about who you are.

Why are we worried is what we are doing a secret?

I really find this "OH NOES OUR SECRET CULT MIGHT BE DISCOVERED!!!11!SHIFTONE!1!" attitude abit childish and well.... ...insecure.

The majority of us are just basically new-age dating instructors. We just do what all human beings do take advantage of our abilities.


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Q: How many PUA's does it take to change a light bulb?




A: One to change the light bulb, three to say the method used changing the light bulb was bullshit and just luck, two to complain about it not being the natural way to change it and encourage PUA's to use candals instead of lightbulbs and fifteen to panic in insecurity when the first PUA thinks of telling the local electrition about how he changed the lightbulb.
That's great lol... :lol:


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NO. Women have this thing called "girl-talk" in which everything in the woman's world is discussed. Even if you're in a long-term relationship with a chick, word will still leak out. Pretty soon, you can end up labeled as a fake, predatory type of guy. It's a bad idea all around.
Yes, you must always beware of the fastest methods of communication.

1. Telephone

2. Telegraph

3. Tell a girl

It's even worse with the internet these days. Think about it. While we're posting ideas about how to be more confident around women there are girls submitting pictures and lengthy descriptions of ex-boyfriends on don'tdatehim.org or whatever they use.

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NO. Women have this thing called "girl-talk" in which everything in the woman's world is discussed. Even if you're in a long-term relationship with a chick, word will still leak out. Pretty soon, you can end up labeled as a fake, predatory type of guy. It's a bad idea all around.
Yes, you must always beware of the fastest methods of communication.

1. Telephone

2. Telegraph

3. Tell a girl

It's even worse with the internet these days. Think about it. While we're posting ideas about how to be more confident around women there are girls submitting pictures and lengthy descriptions of ex-boyfriends on don'tdatehim.org or whatever they use.
1 week ago I let my whole psychology class know I helped other guys and improved myself with this. I'm pretty certain it's leaked to other groups.

I've had no bad effects, not been labeled predatory, not been avoided (infact opposite I've been approached about it).

You guys know style has a girlfriend who knows what he does right?

Anyone seem him in an interview? The women don't scream "BASTARD" at him, they talk to him, it's not a big deal.

Someone should really make it clear, like a sticky for example.
Being a PUA is not something to hide.


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NO. Women have this thing called "girl-talk" in which everything in the woman's world is discussed. Even if you're in a long-term relationship with a chick, word will still leak out. Pretty soon, you can end up labeled as a fake, predatory type of guy. It's a bad idea all around.
Yes, you must always beware of the fastest methods of communication.

1. Telephone

2. Telegraph

3. Tell a girl

It's even worse with the internet these days. Think about it. While we're posting ideas about how to be more confident around women there are girls submitting pictures and lengthy descriptions of ex-boyfriends on don'tdatehim.org or whatever they use.
1 week ago I let my whole psychology class know I helped other guys and improved myself with this. I'm pretty certain it's leaked to other groups.

I've had no bad effects, not been labeled predatory, not been avoided (infact opposite I've been approached about it).

You guys know style has a girlfriend who knows what he does right?

Anyone seem him in an interview? The women don't scream "BASTARD" at him, they talk to him, it's not a big deal.

Someone should really make it clear, like a sticky for example.
Being a PUA is not something to hide.
I'm not ashamed of my involvement in the community at all. I'm sure there are lots of girls perfectly okay with a boyfriend who is a pua. I just think there are a good deal of girls who would look at pickup as manipulation and have an adverse reaction. I'm sorry if I come off as being clandestine I'm not it's just hard to deny that girls may not necessarily approve of what we do.

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I'm not ashamed of my involvement in the community at all. I'm sure there are lots of girls perfectly okay with a boyfriend who is a pua. I just think there are a good deal of girls who would look at pickup as manipulation and have an adverse reaction. I'm sorry if I come off as being clandestine I'm not it's just hard to deny that girls may not necessarily approve of what we do.

No, it's not hard to deny, seeing as you're almost provably wrong. :wink:


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I would never teach her my pua skillz

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LOL, no fear! I told a girl I was in LTR with about the whole PUA thing, she was fine with it and actually became curious about all the PUAs and their unique way of looking at women. She actually asked if I'd heard about "The Game"!

She even wanted to watch videos of them in action.

She thought Style was cool, but didn't like Ross Jeffries lol!

But other girls I told were lukewarm to cold about some of the PUA stuff, they already had negative prejudices about "picking up" from their friends and parents... They thought it was about pickup lines and seeing women as sex objects... boy were THEY in for a surprise! They never expected that PUAs are out to improve their own confidence and attractiveness, not to "deceive" women into sleeping with them. Sho this actually became a DHV once I turned it around!

So my conclusion is that some girls are open to it (she was a psychology major) and others don't really give a damn and you're better off not telling them.


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with my xgf it was a huge nono
the current one knows i picked her up. knows i'm a pua but doesn't know how it works.


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dont be fucking stupid.. terrible idea


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