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I think what is getting lost about DHV is that some guys do pseudo-DHV, and actually become try hard.
You want to actually have higher value, not constantly flaunt it.
DHV needs to be done in a subtle manner. The rich man doesn't need to say he is rich. The intellectual doesn't need to say he is an intellectual. They let their characteristics and mannerisms do the talking.
If you got a girl to have sex with you, she probably didn't do it out of pity. Whether you realize it or not, even if you deny it, you demonstrated higher value to her. She chose you over someone else... you were more valuable to her than some AFC.
People can get lost with DHV by focusing too much energy on it... you are being try hard if you do that. The concept is still valid though.
Uhm, no. While you're busy thinking how to make up or tell some fake DHV stories or routine, your girlfriend is grabbing my cock and putting it in her pussy.
Women spend more money on porn than men for a reason and hearing a guy tell them lies is not. Women desire honest and sincere men. The most effective lines on field are not some long winded DHV routines but rather action oriented, sexually charged, masculine commands like, "Let's go." or "I'm going to bang your pussy real fast."
If you're making up or saying DHV routines like, "I have an old friend whom I met at Oxford University. Guess what? He owns a restaurant by the seaside and makes the most delicious sashimi. Celebrities like so and so go there. Blah, blah, blah. Come over. We're having a party and you'll have a blast." then you're not being efficient with your time, efforts and money.
Compare this with something like:
You: Let's go.
Girl: Where?
You: There. (Point to the back of the church.)
Girl: It's dark out there.
You: (Smile, then eye fuck.) I'm going to bang your pussy real hard.
Honesty and sincerity work better than DHVs.

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