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One of my goals is to date women consistently in countries like Brazil, thing is, I have heard COUNTLESS times from PUAs that the top quality women there want "exotic" looking men aka Blonde men. That alone sets me back confidence wise since I am not a Blonde man.
When you don't know of places where women go crazy for men with black hair, brown eyes, and tanned skin (who just so happen to be South Asian), ya it screws around with your confidence a bit. HENCE, the point of this whole thread. A BLONDE KID would have no issues learning game, why? The PUA community and other things elevate his confidence sky high, you are blonde, you can go to italy and have the finest women there. An Indian guy or Asian guy? Heck, WE CAN be great, but it is dumb to not acknowledge the fact that we start out a step behind before we even get into PUA.
I read your post, now you read mines, all of you.
It isn't that X race can't have success and be a casanova, it is just that learning game is easy for some races BECAUSE they have so much to be proud of in the dating world, other races have LESS to be proud of so learning game (which in my experience is based mostly on confidence) is a tough process.
Yet, who knows? Maybe and I MEAN MAYBE the rewards for an Indian guy who has learned game will be higher than usual since he has broken the mold and become a somebody.
ask any good looking guy that is into pua who has social anxiety, if you are insecure and have no confidence, looks won't work a whole lot in your favour, they get you looks... and that's about it, looks and smiles and no pussy to show for it
all of these threads you make are just about your insecurities, first it was looks thread, when you aren't even bad looking to begin with, now it is race, it is because you don't believe in yourself and have no confidence or determination to improve and succeed that these issues exist for yourself
you are worried that some guy who has more value to offer is going to come along and steal a girl from you, but dude... investment trumps value, if some girl is all ''in love'' with you and has invested all that time and effort and emotion into a relationship with you, why would she throw that away for some other guy?, just because he is good looking?, if you had a girlfriend you were really into, would you cheat on her just because a girl who is a little bit more goodlooking came along?, really? not all people will just drop someone they care about at the drop of the hat for someone else
how do you even expect to get top quality girls in places like brazil when you don't even truly believe you can do it?
you have heard from PUAs that the top quality women there want ''exotic'' looking men, who do you hear these things from? I'm curious, you ''hear'' alot of things that just aren't true, are you spending alot of time at the Roosh forums or something?, that guy is insecure and borderline mysogonistic, he basically does the mystery method then posts about his failures all over the world on his forums... why do you follow along with him?, you probably could get better results then him yourself with the amount of time he puts into it, he certainly doesn't display desireable results, so why would you model him?
most of his insights are about getting rejected in different places of the world and about how, since he can't do it, no one else can, and the people in that place are just racist... but look at the guy, he doesn't groom very well, he doesn't dress all that well, he doesn't take a great deal of care for his body, and he has a pessamistic borderline misogynistic outlook on life, chances are if you actually saw some of the pictures of the girls this guy gets with, you would stop going to his site all together (assuming this is the reason for all these posts about race around the world, since roosh seems to be the only guy that does this that I am aware of)
it's like you have this ideal that women are all universally attracted to the same thing depending on culture and ethnicity, if that were so there would be no diversity in the world, I can tell you as a tall, goodlooking white guy, you will be rejected no matter what ''type'' of girls you approach, attraction is not universal, not every girl you talk to you will have chemistry with, and looks are not as important as you seem to be making them out to be, it's my opinion that being below a girls physical standards will get you blown out or friend zoned, but being above them doesn't = laid automatically, and girls for the most part are not all the hypergamous cheating promiscuous sex crazed little creatures you are making them out to be, most girls might flirt with other guys, but bang them when they are involved with someone else is completely different, that is the reason for the vast majority of girls flaking is simply unvailability, if she is attracted and has a connection with you, she won't even meet you if she is commited to another guy and knows that she will probably end up banging you, these girls are ''time wasters'' for a reason
you are putting things in a biased way towards racial ethnicity, the real question is what kind of guy can learn game easier, race is fairly i-fucking-relevant here, there are white guys who will be virgins for life, there are white guys who will pimp it hardcore, there are indians who will be virgins for life, there are indians who will pimp it hardcore, there are asians who will be vir... you get the point
you make these posts just fishing for information to back up your beliefs that indians are inferior, they are not and there is plenty of evidence to support this in most of your threads, confidence comes from experience, guys that get good with women take care of themselves, they take care of their lives, and they persue their goals, race is not really an issue here, it is your drive to succeed in life, girls want to fuck champions, doesn't matter if the champ is brown, white, asian, latino etc. etc.
if you are not the champ, you are not the champ, it's that simple, so if you feel super insecure and think you are inferior due to race... good luck being the champ with that attitude, one day you're going to meet another indian who is just a straight champion, and it is going to blow you away and you'll realize how much time you have wasted trying to come up with reasons why you can't succeed, when you could be out there working on your success and improving your life, you can lift more weight, you can eat better food, you can dress better, you can make more money, you can socialize better, you can hit on girls with more smoothness and less effort, you can get hotter girls, you can meet cooler friends, you can travel the world, you can do what ever you fucking set out to do, as long as you know you can get it done and you know how you will get it done, put the fucking wheels in motion and get on it
these beliefs are just holding you back, you just fucking HAVE to succeed, it's the way of champions, now please stop making these threads or I'm going to smash my balls with a hammer
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