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Guys. Here's my question. Sometimes I feel a little bad trying to watch a movie or eat dinner in the apartment or listen to music or whatever then trying to have sex with a girl by arousing her physically. Its like you're trying to trick her into doing something irresponsibly. Its like a butch bitch sucking on your dick then jumping on it.
I know I want to have sex with a girl as soon as i see her. I just look at her face, ass and titties. Why is it that you have to persuade a girl to do what she is going to enjoy doing? Something don't seem right about this.
^ cause you have to protect her social conditioning a bit, she knows what is up, but you just kind of have to give her feel like is your responsibility, and you are there for something other than sex, even though she knows is a sexual encounter.
I know all these things, but the method makes me feel guilty. 1.) Because alot of these girls constantly convey they want to love someone to have sex with them and its like you're leading them on only to let them down. 2.) They convey that they feel bad after they just hook up with someone. They regret it when I feel guys often feel proud of themselves.
I realize there is guilt and fear to simply be sexual just because of how women are raised and socialized, but it seems like the
responsible way to have sex with a woman is just to ask her, because there's no leading her on and she can think about whether she will regret it afterward.
I think the real issue is the bullshit that women are fed about sex that its some deeply changing experience and really sex is just entertainment.1.) Romantic bullshit 2.) Fear of being seen as a slut or think of herself as a slut. 3.) Fear of diseases. 4.) fear of pregnancy...
Yes this is true to an extent in my opinion. But you also have to realize not everyone thinks like you do. I may find great meaning in a piano piece, whereas you say "Why? It's just a guy hitting some keys on a black instrument."
Girls (and guys) are fed all the stuff about love and being together, so much so that the reality is sucked out of it. The harsh reality.
To the slut thing. This is one of the biggest issues. We love to judge. But YES there is a difference if a girl gets with a guy or a guy gets with a girl. For a guy to get with a girl there is, many times work involved (exhibit A this forum). For a girl to fuck a guy, if she's not hideous (5 or above on a "scale") all she really needs to do is go up to a guy and say "Wanna fuck?"
Guys tend to judge girls also because we guys love purity. There was a great post in the lounge about this I think. For example if you are in a relationship with a girl, and you both like each other very much, you really don't want to think about how many guys she's fucked before you. In fact, you would LOVE it if she has never fucked anyone BUT you. This in and of itself already sets the stage for guys to judge girls if they fuck someone. Heck I do it too at times.
But that's my take on the whole "girls need love" thing right now.
Also this is just a handful of girls. There are many girls out there who just want to fuck.
CHAT
