| The beauty of humans is that everyday it is something new with the same people. Social interactions change people and their perceptions, thoughts, ideas, opinions, attitude, etc. Take for example that guy from High School who you grew up with and never went to parties, stayed at home, was shy, etc. You see him after a few years of college and he's off partying, shirt unbuttoned, beer in hand, smoking crack.
Women change as well. How many times have you heard that girl who dated a guy for 2-3 years and than they break up and she goes on a sex binge? She was the most loyal and close legged girlfriend for 2 years yet after that devastating breakup she's had dozens of guys lay babies inside of her? Was this woman possible to be gamed during her relationship? Your chances are TINY. However, when things got bad, could she be gamed? Your chances are higher but you're not going to get in her pants by just a timid approach. Now, when she broke up? Your chances are higher.
I look at it in a few ways.
If you're looking to have a lay count in the 1,2, 8 hundreds than you should be direct and go up to as many women as possible. Each night you go to a club you will find that girl who recently broke up with her boyfriend, who had 1 too many drinks, who is experiencing a sex-drive, etc. etc. The reasons can be endless. Chances are, in a world filled with women, you'll find one with a motive to have a ONS. You're not beating around the bush, you're going direct. She likes that, you get what you want, she got what she wants.
Than there's the women who are open to ONS, who are open to meeting guys, getting to know someone, etc. Not all of these women are going to want to screw you on the first night however, maybe you'll only get a number, or a kiss-close but you take her out once or twice and/or possibly date, you'll be banging. How did you approach them? Most likely not using anything direct, your natural game identified that this particular chick isn't going to appreciate a direct method approach. Is it possible to game this girl into a ONS? Sure, but it may take a different approach, a "sweep her off her feet" approach.
Than there are those women, possibly in a deep relationship, possibly strongly religious, possibly having a pissy day, that won't be gamed no matter what. Luckily, for the most part, these women are few and far between. Usually.
The difference is, there is something to Pick-up. There is something different to what gets shared and passed on. It's no challenge to bang the school slut. She'll sleep with any guy who owns a nice car, who got drunk with her, who has social value, etc.
It takes some skill to be able to identify those women who, based on your needs for that night (ONS, possibly ONS + See later, possibly date?), are going to be gamed via a direct/indirect approach.
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