Every girl ive dated in the last few years I was upfront with about being a pua coach. None of them care as much as you all think.

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my girl, show me the book the game, when we were in Barnes and Noble, she said:"look at this baby" hahaha! she by accident have me discover the community..She sometimes get insecure, then i talk to her about it make sure she is secure and comfortable...I am typing with her computer lol!!

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I've done it before, and haven't had a problem. It seems to me your problem is that you're getting girls numbers with her right there?! Not cool. When you're with her, you're WITH HER. Get numbers when you're by yourself. Even if she knows you getting numbers on the side, big difference if you do it in front of her.

Sorry, wasn't really in front of her. But she would see me talk to girls etc. It's not like I was putting numbers in my phone literally infront of her.. I'm not that uncool lol

I hadn't liked a girl like that for ages and basically told her picking up women is an interest of mine and there's also some method to it etc.

You know sometimes when you like someone, you feel really comfortable and tell them things you shouldn't? I think it was like that.

It really backfired though, she felt like I had played her etc.

I don't think it's a good idea, but sometimes I personally find myself letting things slip..

A girl I n-closed in a club was once asking me for advice on how to get her best male friend, who was a virgin, to pull girls.. I was telling her how she could wing him to DHV him and boost his social value. She appreciated the help, but I think it got her wondering what was making me use terms like DHV, and she stopped all communcation shortly after.

I just think we should be careful with what we let off

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At the very least, change it to "dating coach" or something.

PUA makes girls think, oh he's a man whore/slut.

Dating coach helps lovable losers gain confidence and have the confidence to find their true love.

I like that

Why not avoid the situation all together ? You have other hobbies im sure

Dude just saying your PUA is lame .

You: "Hey babe, I'm a PUA I pick of tons of girls."

Girl: "Yeah..Um...Sure..."

You: "C'mon babe picking you up is my speciality."

Girt: "Get the fuck away from me."

Problem solved man. You would have more dignity by being a traveling tampon salesman with clap .

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Although I am certain that you're a nerdy virgin who's got some serious personal issues, you copy/paste some great advice once in a while.

This is not one of those moments.

To the rest, the goal is to pick up women. If your goal is to show off that you're a pua, then do as ^this guy does.

I hate to burst all your collective bubbles here but there is no such thing as a PUA. You are not a PUA you are just a guy that has read some books written by other guys that wrote down some suggestions and techniques on how to talk to women and try to get them into bed.

My guess is there is probably cave drawings on cave walls trying to spell out the same thing.

You are not somehow "different" than any other guy. You do not have any special powers or any Jedi mind tricks.

You did not take a training program and passed a test and were issued a certification card. You did not go through any propation period and pass some initiation rites and were welcomed into some kind of exclusive fraternity.

You are a guy who is interested in meeting and getting to know and fucking women - that makes you one of 3 billion men in the world. all you have done is read some books and read some posts on forum from other people who are sharing their thoughts on how to talk to women.

You have not transformed and gone through a metamorphesis and become a different species or being.

There is no such thing as a PUA. You are just a guy that talks to chicks and tries to fuck them.

There is no reason to tell a gal that you are a PUA because there is no such thing as a PUA, just guys who read books on how to talk to women and try to get them into bed.

If you told a woman that you talk to women and try to fuck them do you think she is going to be impressed????????????????????????? The least it would do is maybe show her that you are interested in girls and not gay. That at least makes you sound like a normal guy.

But if you tell her that you are a "PUA" that makes it sound like YOU think you are something different or something special or maybe even something creepy and that will make you look creepy.

Bloke im going to quote myself to emphasize my first point so the next time you get this urge or any simillar think back to these questions . Im going to sympothise as well for some strange reason I get the urge to talk about problems with women I date to other women I am dating at the time ( usually as in to say I picked you over her therefore you should appreciate this commitment) but that's as retarded as saying Hey Im a PUA/ Wannabe PUA

That whole area is counter productive stop making things hard for yourself

I think that was more it, because I had not become serious with a girl for years just dated/ played and moved on. It's still lame, but probably the main reason
No need to re-quote, since the first time I read it, it has been stuck in my head all week. It's always in my head now when I talk to girls, so everything I say has purpose and direction, this even effects fluff talking to an extent.

Also this isn't a problem I have, telling girls I'm PUA. So don't see me as an egotistical maniac who uses pickup to pickup (if you get what I mean). Just something I did because we were getting serious and part of me thought she should know.

If a girl Digs you! you can tell her you are a pua, you are player, you are a convict, you have 50 kids, she will not go anywhere...


Now let me tell you what happens and is because it happened to me in my earlier years you like the girl you get oneitis, she is pulling back due to the oneitis may even get interest in someone else, and then you say something like this: " i know what you are doing i use to be pua get a bunch of girls, and now i just like you, i want to be with you i am ready for this" And then you pull her away even more, i have been there done that, the underlying problem may be oneitis... I bet you any amount of money on that....

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Maybe oneitus. I liked her/thought about her, if that's what you mean. But it wasn't oneitus in the sense that a oneitus is usually more obsessive and pushes the girl away due to desperate, emotional neediness.