Just a word on ASSUMING ATTRACTION and using that assumption to let yourself focusing on arousal...

Experienced guys like you and me assume attraction because we've worked on developing ourselves, our inner game, our charm, etc. and we KNOW that we're "high value" and shit internally. Since we're not worried about eliciting attraction with strategies based on value or consciously demonstrating masculine polarity or anything like that, we have room to focus on creating arousal, making for a fantastic combination (the assumed attraction + conscious arousal).

Inexperienced guys want to focus on "creating" attraction because they don't yet have the means to assume attraction. They don't KNOW that they're attractive yet.

This means that the inexperienced guys must work on themselves until they actually develop an irresistible personality, vibe, etc. Style (yes, Neil Strauss) called this attribute-based game or something like that.

You gotta keep in mind that some guys aren't yet ready to just be told to "assume attraction" because they're still in the steps before they can do that. You can tell a guy like you and me to "just be yourself" and that advice would be easy to follow, but not for the AFC.