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Hi Farell,

I think club are actually an even harder place to meet women than a simple stranger in the street because the music is so loud, and the bitch shields are stronger.

But I think it's important to keep trying to spit game in clubs and to strangers at bars, lounges, etc., Because even though these are the hardest settings, they are great places to improve you game and calibrate your skills. I use the same skills as always, but I just am at peace with the fact that it's much harder... kind of like baptism by fire.

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i always seem to come across this one problem: im in a loud club, talking to a girl, she says something, and for the life of me i cant understand. I always feel so embarrased after saying "WHAT?" more than once. anyone have any advice?


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Don't repeat yourself. If you say "what?" and she doesn't speak loud enough for you to hear her, ask her to come somewhere a little less noisy so you can actually have a discussion.

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jacked.. i was gonna say the same thing.. use body language (pick up a book on it if you dont know exactly how to be effective at it.. or try things in the mirror).. then talk at your normal voice level.. when she comes closer to hear what youre saying, you can begin talking in her ear while holding her by the waist at the same time

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Like Xfman said, go early. most the bars/clubs where I go, play music way too loud, one of the gambits I run early in the night goes like this.
CHASE: Do you come here often?
HB: No.
Chase: Well let me give you a little tour. (kino to get her attention focused), well that over there thats the front door, you probably came in that way, and I can see that you found the bar already, and that over there, thats the dance floor, I gotta run but if your lucky I can properly introduce you later. ;)

If she interrupts your verbal tour neg her, something like, "oh sweetheart pardon me for talking while you interrupt", or the classic neg to her friend "is she always this rude" but the key is let her interrupt but steal conversational dominance back with the neg. This whole routine is run cocky funny. Later when the music is too loud, i pawn a set near the target. If you worked it right in the beginning she will approach and isolate you to the dance floor. Dance, but make her work for you. then take her to a more quiet place in the bar and run your normal game & close.

the best part is that you cut out on your terms and if it worked she approaches you at that point you wont need to do much talking. i do this several times a night, especially if im feeling lazy or just out with the boys.

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I'm not sure if this will help, but usually I wear a classy, but somewhat ridiculous hat to night clubs. Billabong hats work well. Girls will start flirting with you or commenting on your hat. If they say they like it, take it off your head and put in on theirs. Then walk off to a quiet spot. In a little while, when they're ready to leave, they will find you and walk over to the spot where you are to hand your hat back.

There. Now you're ready to initiate a pickup.

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Also, you can initiate convo with entire groups of females, and ask them ALL out onto the dance floor, and let them all dance with you and compete over you. Not recommended if you don't have balls. I've only done this once, myself, but I was complimented by the girls on having enough courage to walk up to all of them at once, and they secretly told me they hadn't been approached all night.

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Leaning in to talk to her and then coming back out is pecking, which is actually a DLV. Yes, on some girls it will work, but you will never achieve mastery with it because it won't work on the hottest girls. They may put up with it for a while, but it won't stick.


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Carry a lighter with you to the club. Before you are about to approach the girl. Put a little bit of gas in your closed hand. The moment when you approach her and get her attention and you will do that by coming from front. Light the lighter next to your hand and open the hand in front of her face. A little flame will come out of your hand. (I hope you all know what I am talking about). After that put the biggest smile and say : I am burning of a desire to meet you !


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Carry a lighter with you to the club. Before you are about to approach the girl. Put a little bit of gas in your closed hand. The moment when you approach her and get her attention and you will do that by coming from front. Light the lighter next to your hand and open the hand in front of her face. A little flame will come out of your hand. (I hope you all know what I am talking about). After that put the biggest smile and say : I am burning of a desire to meet you !
Have you field tested this?

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Carry a lighter with you to the club. Before you are about to approach the girl. Put a little bit of gas in your closed hand. The moment when you approach her and get her attention and you will do that by coming from front. Light the lighter next to your hand and open the hand in front of her face. A little flame will come out of your hand. (I hope you all know what I am talking about). After that put the biggest smile and say : I am burning of a desire to meet you !
ROFL

Please record yourself doing the whole routine in the field.

I don't know I thin its funny but a little lame, but give us some feedback when you try it on the field.

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lol i remeber trying to do that lighter trick in junior high. its kinda hard, sometimes it works, sometimes it doesnt. it might look kinda stupid if it doesnt work

not that i smoke, but we played with lighters back then :D


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try to learn how to flirt and communicate with your body... keep a big smile, good EC and speak with your non-verbals. i play hard to get and hard to impress (in a funny way -> i have little grin and i hold my eye brows like joe black from "days of our lives" so that i look sceptical about them) all the time from a far, without saying any words.
i open girls normally in places where you can speak normally without saying anything.
I totally agree with this. The handicap of being only able to mostly speak with your body is where the learning comes from in clubs. As we all know 90% of communication is nonverbal therefore if you get body speaking down clubs are easy. Watch how a good dancer dances. Dancing is one of the most expressive things you can do with your body. Also do what actors do. Exaggerate the shit out of all of your movements in a club. Make your movements big and meaningful, and instead of leaning in to hear what she says just tell her to come closer then she will already be jumping through a hoop for you, and it benefits the both of you. Dominate women in clubs, control the interaction physically first, and secondally verbally. You are an alpha man. Loud music is no excuse to not get what you desire, just be creative, find your own solutions, and ask others for help if you have to(which you did, so respect)

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Whisper in her ears. Speak whispering in her ears. This works 100%. A bonus tip in this situation is to smack some cologne on the back of your ear so that when they whisperback in your ear they can smell your cologne, don't put too much on the back of your ear because women got sensitive noses.
I disagree. This is called "pecking." Something
that Mystery, Lovedrop, Style and Matador all
say is a big no-no. This works in later phases
of A3 and C1 through S3.


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