I agree with Hobbit and I think inner game.

Being comfortable and happy with yourself means you can be happy in most situations. I am who I am and I'll always the the same guy when I talk to girls. As soon as I was comfortable and confident everything seemed to fit into place for me. I realised I was always a sociable guy just lacked the confidence to come out of my shell.

I think this is a great starting point for your interaction that sets the context of things. You are talking to this girl because you are interested in her, and lets you show interest. But Intent is only a part. intent is a part of being alpha.

Being an Alpha person, who is confident, which to me means having an instant vision, basically on the fly, or what you are doing in a situation. This could be as simple as putting on a shirt or wanting a one night stand.

Alpha also is being the man, a person who isn't needy of others, who gives value, and goes after what he wants. i think gives value is a key because it generally makes you a good person. I think also an alpha is a humanitarian(i used humanaitarian for lack of a better word in my vocab) in the sense that they want to make people feel good about themselves and gives value. Being alpha isn't necessarily easy, but i typically believe people will generally treat you the way you want to be treated and are helpful. So in a sense you are kind of on a team with a girl and you help each other feel good and have fun together.

So i guess key factors to being an alpha to me are

you should be having fun

know how to be attractive = push and pull = not the easiest to explain since im really in the midst of practicing it. But its giving value, complimentary etc vs teasing, giving them a hard time, making them do things to gain your value back

that humanitarian term

never ask, take what you want when you want - sounds harsh but its really a mindset

So if i could choose 1 large choice it would be Alpha

but the most important part of that to me is the pull of "push pull'

its basically finding or bringing out what you like in that person.