As I wrote earlier, the OP never did "ANY KIND OF GAME". Regardless of how or where you 'game', it comes down to "Meet - Attract - Befriend". Instead of focusing on basic skills and working on them, the Jando man is simply continuing his downward spiral that landed him to his current situation in the first place. The message is, "It's not me! I have/had game! It's the fucking LTR that messed me up! Look at me write all 5 pick up terms that I know ! . . But soooo sad . . . I lost my game . . . the LTR . . . Booo hooo. . ." - How much more can you write? This has got to be as tiring to write as it is to read. . .

If you're bent on continuing down this path, realize first that every step is taking you further from ANY KIND of relationship. Second, at the very least work on your a better presentation of your material: Telling us that a guy can/will lose his 'social skills' through LTR's is retarded. . . unless of course the guy actually is retarded.

1. If you want one night stands, admit it, learn how to meet-attract-befriend and go out and get it.
2. If you want another LTR, admit it, learn how to meet-attract-befriend and go out and get it.
3. Above all, stop blaming the LTR, the game, my misunderstandings of LTR's, your girl's desire to make you jealous, your high moral standards, weak long term memory, etc . . . etc . . . etc . . .

If this was beer night and all the guys were around, I'd still wager on #3 for your next post. I have nothing against you . . .it's just that I bet to win and these habits . . . well, you know they're tough to break.

Jando, Kasabi is saying some harsh shit here but he's right.

Your ex is going out and fucking other dudes because she wants to. You're finding out about it because you're bothering the shit out of her, and interrogating her. Is this true?

Because this is the place to fess up about your fuck ups in relationships. Letting your ego get in the way WILL NOT HELP YOU HERE.

Having game is not about sleeping with random women and having meaningless relationships. It's about developing the power to do so. Until you have that power, you will feel the need to be in a relationship because you are insecure about being alone.

Once you have the power, you will not jump right into the wrong relationship.

The fact that you are exibiting submissive behavior and then posting about it shows that you lack skill with women and confidence in yourself.

Find a mentor. Get out. Sarge. Start wherever you need to. There are lessons you must learn.

I and others would gladly help you out, but you have to work at it like many of us have.

The whole idea of you getting your ex back, and how to game girls over a period of time is this AFC, blind leading the blind nonsense that is confused with having game.


I hate this whole theme because "getting her back" and "repairing your fuckups" is NOT WHAT ANY METHOD IS ABOUT WHATSOEVER! The reason you are in the situation you are is because YOU CURRENTLY LACK ATTRACTION!

Find a "guru." Kasabi already gave you an assignment.

Do the work.

AND GET RELATIONSHIPS OFF YOUR MIND ALTOGETHER!

STOP LOOKING FOR THE ONE AND START SEEKING THE ACQUISITION OF SKILLS AND ALPHA TRAITS!!!!!!!!!!



add me on facebook at this www.facebook.com/spreadloveders if you seek guidance.

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Spread, good post.

I'd agree, relationships should be off Jando's mind all together, have some fun, find yourself, your new self Jando.

If anything, you should now get on with life, don't prove a point to her, if you get on with things, she'll be gagging for you sooner or later I bet. She'll wonder why you stop contacting her, especially if you drop it now, and just like that, not even a gradual process. Then she'll be wondering what your upto while your fucking other girls.

Go out, live, have fun. She don't care, why should you? YOU SHOULDN'T.

Chel.

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kasabi is just being a cocksucker! I was taking your advice for a bit, but nowhat t i lost respect for you ill stop.

other guys cheers for the input!

back to the gym, beach, reading zen books and well, fuck it even reciting canned lines!!

whats your point.

lol for all i know your just a online nerd. youre always on here.

I learnt from my situation, so now im starting fresh but, having improved from what I learnt. back out to get girls.

yea that is a cycle? when something ends, but its not the end of everything :s
You start again, but continue from what youve learnt.

And because this wasn't a beer night, I can't collect.

kasabi has never been in love. You wouldnt know.

i got game dude you dont know me. Got a girl coming round tonight. so what.

Love just makes a fool of people. Can be worth it tho.

cool

dude Jando heres my advice
STOP HATING ON PEOPLE WHO ARE TRYING TO HELP YOU

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Just an FYI, people who take out their insecurities on other people usually have those insecurities themselves.

Posts @ 3:39, 4:59, AND 5:55 am, suspicious...

Anyway, from what I've read, I think that you have a victim mentality where you want the pity and sympathy of others longer than you should. Since you can't get what you desire here, you lash back with anger. Anger is one of the last resort mechanisms people have, so right now I think you're out of options.

Right now I still think you're hurt over the girl, and that's cool. Taking out your anger on dudes on the internet is not cool. You have no control over this girl, and petitioning Hobbs, kasabi, or any other forum person is not going to help you with that. I think the best thing for you to do is just hop off the computer and do something physical since I sense some anger. Doing something like jogging or boxing will start to get your mind off her.

I wish you luck.