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Don't hate the player... hate the game. How about blaming the women for being so attracted to guys like me? Maybe I just become an emotional AFC and get less women.
You are entitled to your opinion. But its just an opinion.
Focusing on a persons uniqueness isn't about worshipping, nor is it about being OVER-emotional*.
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It's actually quite funny that you compare yourself to the peak of attractiveness, (I should send my ex who used to be on this forum this thread, she'd laugh her ass off at what you've just said)
Truth is, while you'll get some sex there are plenty of people who get laid far more than you, are considerably better lays than you and are liked more than you... and... have the complete opposite belief to you.
Why is this so?
Well your ability to objectify people has probably played a big part in reducing your fear of approaching** as it did with me, but it's also meant that you have lost one of the most sexy parts about you. Which is your ability to be un-ashamingly 100% human and lost in the moment.
As long as you keep the borg mindset, you'll only ever be a "possible fuck".. not a very good one... hell you wont be that much fun to spend time around either.
You'd get laid alot more if you learnt how to connect.
* Thinking emotion is bad, is a big red flag, the key is appropriate emotion, not a complete lack as you seem to have interpretted it (as I did as well).
** In saying this I should point out that the fact that you objectify and categorise people is evidence that you have a fear of the very thing you objectify. (as I did as well)