I have seen a lot of this over the years. People handing out advice. Thats all good. I like that, it is what makes this forum great!

However, i see a lot of people proclaiming their own truth to people who just starts out in the game. These people have just started to find their way in the jungle of information that is out there. They have weak inner game and tacky outer game.

We have all been there.

A lot of the guys giving advice (I have been one myself) just state sentences like "Just be yourself" or "its all in your head"...

And they are right! Thats not the problem. The problem is that that is right for them. That is the realization they just got and think that hey, I would like to have known this earlier. But what they forget is that most likely people have been telling them that over and over again. I just re read my old posts.

They have heard exactly that. But they were not ready to appreciate it to its full potential.

A master PUA can "just be himself", a newbie cant. And why? Because the master have got inner game, outer game and the training required for it to work. A newbie is insecure and scared, if he would just be himself he would still be in his bedroom with a dirty magazine and some toiletpaper.

So people, what I am trying to say is:

Give advice based on the other guys level, not based on your level.

The problem is, as Fin was saying, that people dont realize that they dont have the one and only truth. At least they dont give advice that way.

What I do when I give advice is to assume that people know that what I am saying is based on my experience and what I would do in a situation like that.

What I say is not the truth, it might even be wrong. But it is my opinion, and thats all I have to give. My opinions are always open to debate!