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Hey Risen,
Up until 1954 no one was ever able to run the mile in under 4 minutes. Once that record was broken by Roger Banister, all of sudden several athletes completed the mile in under 4 minutes. What Roger Banister did was show that it can be done.
When Risen goes and talks to beautiful girls, you are showing other guys that its ok to talk to beautiful women. It is natural for other guys to follow and come into the conversations.
What separates you from them is that you lead, and they FOLLOWED.
Understand that when they come into YOUR conversation, you are the leader. You have proven that you are leader by setting the example.
How fun would soccer be if you could just take the ball and run to the other side and score without any one challenging you. Not very fun at all.
These guys who are giving you difficulty are only trying to bring out a better, stronger Risen.
Trust yourself my friend, you capabilities are stronger then you think.
this, i like, excellent point (apart from calling it soccer
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a lot of people have suggested AMOGing....big problem there, if several of your friends come over and you start the AMOG bullshit on several people, the girl will think your a complete dick, not to mention your friends might not remain friends for too much longer.
From what i gather you haven't set any clear boundaries with your friends, simply talking...like adults...about how what there doing isn't cool could sort it.
If you are going to AMOG them be prepared to blow your chance with the girl, set an example that this shit you will not tolerate, be harsh, very harsh and they might get the message...i would only recommend this if they are really being a pain, not just them trying to take the girl from you but them purposely cock blocking and trying to sabotage your game, this is really a last resort. in other words, this is only called for if someone crosses boundaries that you have clearly set out...which you haven't.
CHAT