If they look down you have a sheep that will be an easy mark. A look away to the side, or to her friends, is a sign shes looking for the escape route already.

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I know i'm not Finesse but i can also explain it to you

beam of light is just an example he used. you can also imagine this: from your eyes comes a laser, like a sniper, and the laser comes right from your eyes. the laser points to where you are looking.

now imagine, there is this girl. you're looking with your laser eyes. you see this pretty girl. what you do is NOT staring at her. your going to stare slightly next to them. imagine that your laser is pointing to her cheeck, her ear, or between her and her friend who stand close to her. or point your laser at somebody behind her.

now she notice that you're looking. in fact, it looks like your staring at her. as a defence, she looks back wondering why you are looking at her. she is already starting to think things like "omg that creep is staring at me".

but you're not.

the moment you see them looking at you for a few seconds from the corner of your eyes, you point your laser directly right into her eyes.

what she now sees is that you now move your eyes slightly. your eyes will even more be looking at her. she now sees a difference. if you're now realy looking at her, then before you moved your laser/ eyes, she figures out, you weren't realy looking at her

she figures out that you weren't just a creep looking at her, but at somebody behind her.

Now she feels embarrassed and ashamed that she was looking at you!

The roles have changed. She is the creep now who was looking at you! at this point, you have 1) non verbally neged her, 2) dissarmed her, 3) still made sexual eye contact.


There are several ways to react then. chances are she is ashamed and looks away. but probably she will look back! from then on, you can approach her saying/ or stil from a distance non verbally communicating with hands and face "why were you lookin at me?" and then approach her.