Survey after survey has shown that women prefer 10-15 minutes for intercourse.

Think whatever you will, facts are facts.

Surveys are not facts. Yes, it is probably a good thing if you can last over 10 minutes, but a lot of the men here are just now getting a small amount of sex into their lives. Every man has busted a nut in a few minutes, no shame in that, and unless you have a medical condition or only fuck when drunk...I doubt women are going to make or break a relationship because a guy is only lasting 6 minutes every other time.

My time depends on if there's music. If there's no music, I can go for about 15-20. If there is music I'm able to go into "state" and only hear the beat and feel her body and that is all. It's intense, but sometimes the girl doesn't want to hear any music.

As far as how long you SHOULD go for, well, it's dependent on the girl. I had a girl once who could only go for about 5 minutes before she orgasmed and became to sensitive. Then I had another that prefered to go for 45 min. And everything in between.

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If the dream is won
Though everything is lost
We will pay the price,
But we will not count the cost.
-Rush

Its not ow long... its he amount of pleasure.

I mean... if your just going at it "sorry for the expression" for 3 hours long its not gonna do any one much good now is it??

To please a woman you need to put her in first. You need to want to please. your pleasure comes from her having pleasure.

and no, it doesnt count to get her verry exited and filled up with foreplay and then forget about her and just do your thing...

Please her. if you can give her more thn one orgasm in different ways than trust me she will be verry happy XD depends on the girl... and depends on how strong the orgasm is. but time... its just a bullshit excuse for people who have no idea how to please feel good about themselves...

My opinion anyways

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IM A GIRL that likes girls .. its simple.

I had to answer this. ok, guys. lets do it this way. Picture you are laying down, and a girl gets on top of you, uses your penis to make herself orgasm. meanwhile you are sitting there, you are hot, but have not gotten the amount of pleasure you wanted or even gotten close to orgasm. and this girl roles over and goes to sleep.

after a while of this im sure your just gonna run to the shower or any other place where se will not catch you to take care of yourself.

is that what you want the girl to do??
If you wanna be a PUA you should at least be able to please... come on. are you men or are you a chicken??

sure you can brag to your friends about how many girls you got or walk around with a flock of girls around you... but if you dont please them... trust me. they will go talk to each other about it and the next time you go sarging you will find your flock pointing and laughing at you.

Man up

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IM A GIRL that likes girls .. its simple.

PS:

this is just an exmple, my opinion... and im not saying im some kind of hot shot in sex or anything of the sort. you always learn something and it depends on your partner too.

A woman is enclined to love games. You should use you game to make her want you. Just by gaming her you are turning her on... she will WANT you if she feels she cant have you.

that is the first step in "foreplay" with a woman. game her, even in a relationship.
give her a massage,do something "kinky" what ever... someting that will relax her body and her mind especially. never forget to make her feel good about herself specially if you want her to get dominant too. you will find that you can tur the most sub. women into a dominating cat if she feels secure.

I have always had this oppinion, and i have always thought the game part and the seduction is what gets a woman really going. If you seduce her every day... you will most likely turn you boring relationship into a much better relationship.

Its a typical problem in relatonships when a guy feels like he has hooked a woman he tends to let go and forgets that te "game" is still on.

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IM A GIRL that likes girls .. its simple.

Awesome! This is so true!

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

Madz I've actually used this as an opener in the past, surveying women and sexually framing them while exploring sexuality also.

The average was something like 45.5 minutes or something - it was give or take a couple 100 women. However, agreed, option 3 is obviously preferable. Although I do like to finish off with a little head.

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V1V

Sex is about mutual effort and not about time, if you look at the clock during sex you might as well turn in your penis and your man card at the front desk right now!

It varies a lot from girl to girl how long it takes her to orgasm, my ex took a good 15-20 minutes so that was a lot of work, my current GF can easily orgasm 3-5 times within the first 5 minutes. Time doesn't matter at all during sex, unless you ejaculate prematurely of course.

This is also why I am not a big fan of one night stands, it doesn't matter how much experience the two of you have, it is about mutual effort and cooperation in bed. Which is why short term relationships or fuck buddies are the way to go if you want great sex without commitment!

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Slywalker

10 things I wish someone taught me about Pick Up 10-things-i-wish-someone-taught-me-vt53087.html

I love this quote!

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn