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well obviously this is Mystery's slant on it and that is cool but I am now seeing others drinking and having fun and have to admit that I am much more confident with a drink or two in me but since I started have resisted.
I don't know but I am seriously thinking about having a few before I go out just to get me in the party mood.
I have to admit that I don't care so much when I have a bit to drink and am all round more likely to approach.
Mr E, the problem you're going to have by the sounds of it is that you may be able to get 'good' at pick up when you have a few drinks in you in the club...but what about after that? 2nd meetings etc. you cant be hammered every time you meet a girl somewhere as Im sure you will agree. My theory is this....practice your game soba initially for a while to give yourself NATURAL confidence, you will then KNOW that you dont rely on alcohol. This will become a belief of yours. If you only game when youre drunk i promise you now when youre on your first few dates youre going to think 'fuck me ive never done this soba before, im going to be a completely different person and im giong to fuck up as ive only interacted with women while being hammered'.
Where as if you game soba for a while you wont have this fear. You will KNOW that you are a pick up machine whether youve got drinks in you or not. Once youve done this soba for a while then start having a few drinks and take it from there. Dont overdo it though of course. Seriously I dont think there is anything necessarily wrong with drinking while gaming, but just make sure you can game without drinking too, else all you will end up being is a PUA alcoholic. The ones that chicks see when youre in a soba state and say 'why's he being so quiet, thats not like him'. Alcohol portrays a false representation of the real you (most would say the opposite, but think about who you are MOST of the time.).