ChinaGuy,

When girls avoid eye contact like that, it's not because they're super turned on by you. I don't care how good looking you are. Avoiding eye contact altogether is an indicator of either:

a) Shyness, possibly cultural habits

or

b) Disinterest.

I'm going to bet on B. Submissive eye contact breaks don't look like that. Submissive eye contact breaks are when the girls looks DOWN and then looks back at you. If she DOESN'T look back at you, it's simply disinterest. Shyness is very similar.

The other factor involved here is that girls should be SMILING when you make eye contact (So should you, btw). If they DONT smile and try to break EC, it's them breaking rapport. That's why celebs wear sunglasses at night and in the club. It's them breaking rapport with the entire room becase you cant make eye contact with them.

If you dont make eye contact and smile, it just comes across like you're staring. It's weird and creepy.

And if a girl makes EC with you and smiles at you, walk up to her and go direct. "You can't look at me like that and not say hi." Credit goes to Cajun for that one.

Just because I girl looks down, DOES NOT mean she's submissive. It simply means she's shy or tends to withdraw quickly from social interaction. Or she could simply have an anxiety disorder or be slightly agoraphobic. Shy and submissive aren't exactly synonymous with one another. Though, I do recognize a large percent of women do enjoy being led and being submissive, just don't automatically categorize them as such.




a little secret fellas... eye contact is simply a way of a girl inviting you to communicate with her. Nothing more. It doesn't matter where she looks after you stare her down, and it doesn't matter what happens to her body language. You've been given a ticket to talk with her, use it if you want.

And if a girl makes EC with you and smiles at you, walk up to her and go direct. "You can't look at me like that and not say hi." Credit goes to Cajun for that one.