Wow, I get a little lost in the lingo sometimes ... I thought MILF meant "Mother I'd Love to F*@#! To me that's an HB9.5+ that is probably over 30. In other words a woman every man would want, but with a life issue that makes her normally unapproachable.

I'd agree proving yourself to be discreet is the most important thing for these women, since they may have something to lose. Maturity is a huge part of that proof, but actually being discreet is the most important thing. It's a subtle dance trying to show interest and not letting anyone else know except the target of your interest. Women are really good at reading your tells so sarging a MILF with a number of women around is normally not being discreet.

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Artax
Devil's Advocate

"You're only as young as the women you feel."
"I am the Master of my unspoken words, and the Slave to those words that should have remained unsaid."