im not going to read the other posts in this thread because i know before hand i wont care too.

If you know for a fact that she is giving you all these ioi's that she really is into you then here is the deal. She is engaged for the wrong reasons, and is looking for a reason not to do it. perhaps shes tired of looking, pressured into it or is becoming content...but she knows there is better and if it comes along shes going for it.

I cant say for sure, because all her IoI's may be false, i cant see them to know how i would take them and no matter what you write i still would not tell you how i would perceive them.

Know that dealing with this situation she may be putting her engagement off on you, if something does happen between the two of you, and it does not end the way she likes, she is going to use you as a scape goat for the actions. all responsibility will be placed on your shoulders.

to me, it seems that she just does not have the balls to drop the engage ment, or shes leading you on. either way understand that it will be your fault no matter the outcome, because all responsibility will be yours.

to be honest tho, if all the signs are there, your not breaking up a good relationship...your the way out of a bad one...engagement, marriage or dating...many women use other men as a way out of something they no longer want to be in so they don't feel responsible.

on another note, if i knew it was a bad relationship she was in, i would plant the seeds to make her aware she has a decision and let her make it all the while being right there.

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"The greatest mistake you can make in life is to be continually fearing you will make one."

oOo... I've gone through this a few times

I'm currently considering if I want to do it again or not with a girl I recently met.

PM me man we'll set up a time to chat in one of the rooms on here or via AIM/MSN SPAM something like that.