wow i dont remember blaming anyone. and i played the guitar before i joined pick up and the same with rugby. ive realized i need to write some clear goals. i wont be back on here till ive completed one goal on my list. in a bit guys, wish me luck.

wow i dont remember blaming anyone. and i played the guitar before i joined pick up and the same with rugby. ive realized i need to write some clear goals. i wont be back on here till ive completed one goal on my list. in a bit guys, wish me luck.

Olie your a loser if you keep thinking that everybody hates you or talks bad about you. I dont really like to talk about this one experience I had but seeing as you really need the help Ill share it. Im a junior in high school now and last year there was this one guy named james. James

was this really big black jock guy. I use to hate him cus he would always pick on me. One day while hanging out with my friends james comes up and thinks that I was talking shit about about him. I tryed to play it cool and relaxed and tryed to convince him that I wasnt (I really wasnt, it was my other friend that was.) So while I have my back turned to him he

comes up behind me and hits me across the face, Everybody that saw just had their jaw dropped in amaze (only like 12 people saw). I just stood there as he walked away and I was so pissed and all I did was flick him off (Give him the middle finger). Some of my friends were laughing so I dont think it was taken too negatively. But I took it so negatively. I thought everybody is going to

think im a bitch or a pussy now cus i didnt do anything back to him, This drove me into one of the worst depressions of my life! I literely stole my grandmas antidepressants and took them without her knowing. Yet the friends i hung around me didnt think less about me. mostly all of the people that saw were my friends and those that werent became my friends. Even after this I was still depressed and started taking

antidepressents. Then the best thing in my life happened I read The Game during that summer vacation. Everything changed after that I became more happy and started gaming girls. When summer was ending I swore I wouldnt return to that school again. I ended up going to a different school but since it was too far from my house I needed to return to my old school. When I returned I was the king. Thanks to the game,

the forum, mystery, and everything else pickup related my whole life changed high school is now so fun for me! I LOVE IT! Im one of the popular kids and girls that didnt like me before now have showed me IOIS Ive met more girls now and im still meeting new girls. Later on I learned how to fight thru one of my friends and now I feel like Im UNSTOPPABLE. My friend started telling other kids how he taught me how

to fight now and its been amazing. Im now friends with james YES friends with the guy that use to bully me hell today i saw him and he was like "What Up Nigga!" And V1V is Right No Matter What BODY LANGUAGE IS THE MOST FUCKING IMPORTANT THING!!! I Show a shit load of alpha body language and i think thats probably the reason why i dont get picked on anymore. Anyways I hope my reply helps somebody and I just thought Id share this, later guys.

thanks that did help me a bit. ill sort myself out by the next time we speak u just wait

I was a pretty popular guy in highschool. I'm now 21 and have had plenty of time to look back at what happened.

Basically I was the tallest kid in school. One of the most built. I was on the wrestling and football team and everyone knew who I was. Random people would talk to me by name all the time and I never had a clue what their name was. I dated some of the hottest girls in our school and in our rival school.

I was also more of a social guy and was friends with alot of cliques. I never hung out with the group of "popular kids" cuz I felt like they always had something to prove. Of course I hung out with them sometimes and they liked me but we were never too close. I really had like 3 or 4 really close friends and I hung out with the wrestling team the most.

Basically I was one Cocky piece of shit in highschool. My senior year I fractured my neck and had to quit wrestling and football. I lost alot of muscle mass. This is going somewhere I swear....

After my surgery, I was worthless (or so I felt). I realized how much of an asshole I could be. I relied mainly on my popularity, looks, and build to pick up girls. I had alot of girl friends but only really dated other girls from other schools.

Then it hit me and I was talking to a friend about everything and he told me to read the book "Double your dating" by David DeAngelo. That was my first PUA book I ever read, my senior year in highschool.

Since highschool I never got as big as I used to be. I'm still in shape but not bulky. Basically once I started working on my inner-game I noticed way more success with women. I never imagined myself back in highschool pulling as much ass as I am right now. I realized looks only get you so far. High school as died off and I'm not as well known but I realize all that matters is when meeting a new girl that you portray yourself in the best way possible.

As for some advice. This is what I did to get myself started. Anytime I walked into a room full of people I told myself these motivational words "damn I am the biggest baddest mother fucker, why should some little girl intimidate me" Eventually I started beliieving it. That was my starting point.

Hope that helped. I know it strayed a little.

I had EXACTLY the same problem in high school everyone new me as the wanabe cocky hardman. The MAIN reason people have a opinion of you is that they dont even now you but a form of chinease whispers where everthing gets twisted and made worse has occured and the word has got round your worthless

If i was you i would jus get talking to a bunch of people you genreally wouldnt of started talking to prove to them your not scared or to insecure to start a conversation up with them then they should see your real side. Would you rather leave high school known as "Ollie? Whos ollie? oooo THAT ollie =|" or would you rather be known as "Ollie? Yer he changed soo much in the last few months i never new he was actualy like that??"
The best way is to talk to EVERYONE if some of them dont like you at least youve made the effort not everyone in life will get along with you but you dont know if uyou dont try!

As for the bullys if they come up and try and AMOG you learn some AMOG techniques comebacks etc and just blow them straight out of the water if you can feel them about to start a fight get the first punch in. I now that sounds like SHIT advice but if its going to happen wuouldnt you rather get the 1st punch in instead of being hit with a sucker punch and ending up on the floor? If the word gets around YOU floored a bully your value will soar as people will start to see you as a different person.

You havnt got to get a thousand girls before you leave you dont need to get one but if you take some of my advice (Im only saying that as it worked for me) you can go to college nowing that youve got more confidence more skills and you can make your new friends perceive you totally different.

I was HATED through high school untill the last year then i found adivice like this somehwere and put it into practise i got 1 K close yer its not much but ive still moved forward. As soon as i hit college i started talking to everyone and now i have the BEST friends ive ever had. And knowng you made people ion your old school see you differently helps with your inner game

Hope that helped

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