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Ok so I was on the metro yesterday and what I saw just shocked me. The guy was about mid-twenties, average to just below average attractiveness, and rather roughly put together (I would later find out he was a software designer--so it makes a little more sense--no offense to any software developers out there it is just bc you get to work at home!).
Anyway, I was waiting for the metro and the guy kept looking back at this one girl and then finally after a minute or so he says to her, "Are you going to Pentagon City?" She said no...and he said, "Oh you just looked like you were going to Pentagon City." No for those of you who don't live in Washington DC....there is no look to Pentagon City...you can't tell someone is going there by how they look. It was a horrible line. BUT she continued talking to him. I hate the rating scale but I suppose this girl would be about an 8.
So they continue talking on the metro for a bit and he asked about her job, then he talked about his job and then he talked about software. He made some jokes which she didn't really laugh at (they werent really funny) but he laughed pretty loudly and rather obnoxiously. The point of the story is that he still got her number! He had frame control, but no game....the words that actually came out of his mouth actually turned me off even if I was attracted to him in the first place.
It was very interesting to watch a average/below average looking guy, who was not put together, and spoke about software and the advantages of Mac over PC still get this pretty girl's number and I thought I'd share it with you guys.
Bonita is trying to illustrate two important points.
FRAME CONTROL AND CONFIDENCE
Men has to realize how people communicate in an interaction, we communicate more with Body Language, voice pitch and tone.
This guy had Confidence and he show it off in his Bondy language and Frame control.
I'm going to analyze more his Frame control...
He told bad jokes but he had the frame control he was so sure his jokes were good that they worked,
he knew what he wanted and take a look, he did it!
I bet this guy knows who he is, what he needs and he is showing it with his body language and confidence.
SUCCESS,
XFMAN