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| RockGod | PostPosted: Mon Sep 29, 2008 1:23 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  | Joined: Tue Aug 12, 2008 9:58 pm Posts: 33 | | I totally agree with Chino's comment on negative energy with the bonfire.
Believe me from experience women sense this anger or hostility and want to keep it as far away as possible from them.
AMOG's and PUA's don't get pissed or angry at anything...period.
I've learned this the hard way and have since changed my game and it totally works.
MORAL: Don't have any problems...only solutions
IE: Fire won't start....lighter fluid or gasoline
"Stand back ladies this may be dangerous and please don't try this at home."
Total AMOG taking control _________________ I Am The Prize In Your Cracker Jack Box
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| callmecaptain | PostPosted: Wed Oct 08, 2008 4:43 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Tue Aug 05, 2008 1:52 am Posts: 183 Location: CA | | I had a conversation with one of my friends that's a PUA just after I first posted about this scenario. I described it to him and asked him if he'd ever faced something similar. He said he had.
For him he was hanging in a 3 set with 2 other guy friends. So there were 3 guys and 3 girls. He said the other 2 HBs were pretty much taken by the other two guys. The one left over wasn't that good looking, but he said she had nipple rings which for some reason he was all about that night. So he decided he'd game her and that it'd be no problem. This girl made fun of him all night, interrupted him constantly and was just being a class 10 bitch.
He said he was pretty demoralized and shocked. He always does really well with HB8s 9s and 10s and now this HB6 with nipple rings was messing up his frame.
He told me he went into the bathroom, closed his eyes and put himself outside of his situation from a perspective where he could problem solve objectively without too much personal attachment to the outcome. He reframed and went back out. He said he found her soft spot, a button that he pushed that made her feel bad (this is so counterintuitive). He negged her on that throughout the night. By the end of the night her attitude toward him had changed. She stopped interrupting him and was actually laughing at his jokes. I don't know if he hooked up with her, but he did number close her at the end of the night.
I found this story to be inspiring. Last week I was hanging out with 2 HBs and a couple of my friends. My friends went outside to go smoke cigs and i was left alone with the 2 HBs. I had started the night deciding that I was going to be a nice guy. I didn't feel like being cocky. These girls did the same shit to me that they did to my buddy!!
They were interrupting me, making fun of what i said, and shutting me out with thier body language. This time i remembered his story. I went into the bathroom and looked myself in the mirror. "Do you really give a fuck about these girls that are making fun of you?" The answer to that question was no. They hadn't deserved my respect yet. I changed to a cocky funny attitude and decided that I was the prize.
I went back out and I kid you not, within 15 minutes the entire energy of the room had changed. I was now sitting in between the two HBs, making fun of them, and they were laughing so hard at what I was saying! Kino was NOT a problem either.
I was the center of attention for the rest of the night and I did it exclusively based on believing i had more value than the HBs and by negging and being cocky funny.
The night completely turned around.
So experiences like my first post aren't always bad. If you have one, write about it and try to learn from it. I feel like I've come a long ways since my AFC days.
Thanks for reading this long ass post.
CPT _________________ "Wait, so let me get this straight. One really big meal a day then we go to sleep, no paper towels but a little bit of bread because we're not Nazis and as many popsicles as we want."
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| **Patriot** | PostPosted: Wed Oct 08, 2008 11:33 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Sat Sep 20, 2008 8:55 pm Posts: 22 Location: All over | | haha...."Long ass Post"....hey, that just means there's a lot of detail and explanation there...which we need to get anything out of it.
Good to hear about the turn around bro...
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| MattJacks | PostPosted: Wed Oct 08, 2008 11:47 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict |  | Joined: Tue Apr 29, 2008 2:21 am Posts: 284 Location: Australia | | maybe she noted that you were rating her. thinking of a girl as a 5 or 7 and treating her such may not be the right thing to do. in this situation anyway. _________________ Its not failure, its a learning challenge.
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| Chino Kapone | PostPosted: Wed Oct 08, 2008 4:51 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Tue Jan 29, 2008 8:39 pm Posts: 914 | | Right on CPT!
See, it really wasn't a setback. Now its something to learn from and an experience that other guys on the forum can learn from as well. I love it!!
CK _________________ success is my only mother fucking option, failure is not.
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