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PostPosted: Wed Sep 17, 2008 4:22 pm 
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Cool. Thanks man.

I feel pretty confident with the path I'm following because it seems logical to me.

But I like to learn which is why I'm open to hearing suggestions on the matter. I know there isn't an magical text. I'm not looking for one.

I'd just like to hear a variety of perspectives on the subject.

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excellent post man. You are definitely doing just fine.

She sounds like a serial monogamist to me dude. It seems like she is waiting for you to sweep her off her feet already so she can go can her old boyfriend for you to take his place. I would imagine that if you went for the K, she would be in your lap faster than you could think.

I like how you diffused the situation by saying you weren't looking for anything serious, which (if she is indeed a serial monogamist) is why the reason she probably pulled away, she was hedging her bets.

Sounds like she's looking for something serious man. I am interested in reading about the conclusion.


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dude same thing happened to me! (except you're more pro) how long did it take for you to learn all these tricks?


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I'm definately not a pro! LOL

I picked up the game in May, but things didn't start clicking until I attended AFC Adam's webinar on SPAM a few weeks back. It's about having a specific state of mind. When you have the right mind you don't have to memorize lines.

The best advice I have is just to let go of your concious mind and simply do what you feel like doing. Don't ever tell yourself no. If you kind of wanna go talk to an HB10, then do it. You don't have to overthink it. Even if you crash and burn, don't reflect on your crash and burn. Your subconcious will take care of all of that. All you have to do is just open people often and discover that frame that you operate best under.

I have some more info on the situation here but I gotta run to class so I'll update later tonight.

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Ok here we go.

Last night she was texting me and getting pretty cocky. She said something to the extent of:

Her: "yeah well i'm getting bored of this convo so I'm going to burn a cd"
Me: "Screw You"
Her: You Wish
Me: I've had better
Her blah blah
Me: I'm breaking up with you
Her: You wouldn't
Me: I just did
Her: says some dumb cocky thing
Me: I don't answer

When i didn't answer her she texted me 3 more times finally asking where i was. In the morning she texted me 2 times asking if i wanted to meet up and study later (this shit is getting old).

I gave her a 1 word answer: Sure

She texted me 2 more times - i didn't answer. When i got done swimming today i called her and told her to meet me somewhere in 15 minutes. I invited 2 other girls to make her jealous. I'm pretty sure it worked.

While we were studying there was a homeless guy by us that was mentally ill in a very sad way. She kept laughing at him and thinking there was something funny about the situation. I found this to be a major turnoff. In general she was just being really immature and annoying today. I thought to myself... What the hell am I doing? This totally isn't worth all of this time investment.

I definately don't want to date this girl. I was just trying to hookup for fun. At this point I'm running out of motivation.

She totally flirted with me the whole time we were there, but it was such a waste of time. I'm glad i invited the other girls. They actually entertained me.

Later she called her boyfriend to come meet up with us without telling anyone. He showed up. He's actually a really cool guy. IMHO he can do way better than dating her. She's only and hb7.5. I bet he'll break up with her when he moves.

During our study session I talked to this girl at starbucks and gamed her pretty well. She said she was moving to Portland tomorrow so i decided i wasn't even going to bother with a phone number. I guess I could've went for the it's your last night in town F-close but i just wasn't feeling it. Later when she left, she was leaving with another HB I took summer school classes with. The other HB yelled across the parking lot to me and it totally made me look cool because i was sitting with 3 chicks and the girl i had just gamed was friends with another HB that was talking to me. Social proof like crazy.

Anyway, i'm just bragging now.

I'm ending this post because I've officially come to the following conclusions:
1- this girl is not hot enough for the amount of work she's making me do
2 - i would never date her
3 - there are many other women on this planet

So with that i'm just going to shut her out. On a positive note I did meet a new target on campus. I started talking to her outside of the science building when i was waiting for class. We're supposed to get lunch together on Tuesday. We're officially facebook friends.

Hopefully I'll write a new thread describing my success with this one.

At the moment I'm pretty frustrated


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Well, I know I said I was done with this but apparently that's not the case.

I was on my way to shoot some pool with my buddies around 9pm tonight. She called me and was freaking out! I told her to calm the hell down and breathe. She was working on this lab report last minute and didn't get how to do it. I said i was hangin with some buddies but that she could meet me at the pool hall and bring her work. She came and I helped her out for about 30 minutes. During this time my buddies got tired and left - bummer. As soon as i was done helping her the place was closing so I gave her some crap about how she owed me for helping her.

I started walking to my car and she followed me. Her car was on the other side of the parking lot. I didn't even invite her. It was so wierd. We get to my car and I have a feeling she wants to come in. I tell her, "hey have you seen the lights inside this thing. They're so cool". She jumps at the invite and says "here move your stuff I'm coming in".

I took this as a huge IOI. We sat in the car, listened to some of my music, talked about ghost stories etc for like 2 hours. It was crazy! While she was talking to me I did the triangle stare, eyes, lips, eyes. It didn't trip her up at all.

Now if it was anybody else i'd have kissed her by now. But given all the dialogue from the above posts i decided to test out the water first. While we were talking I had been kinoing her all night. Punches here and there. An arm on the shoulder during conversation. I even pushed on her nose and said she looked like a rabbit. This time i put my forarm lightly on her knee and thigh while we were talking. She seemed okay with it for just a few seconds. Once it was longer than that she readjusted her position so that my arm wasn't on her. She was very subtle about it, but I know enough to know she wasn't feeling it.

Instantly i got pissed off. I didn't get it. I don't get it. What does she want with me? Why'd she follow me to my car?? WTF?? I told her i was getting hungry and that i was going to go home. It was true. I was pissed and hungry. As she left I told her she was mysterious to me and that i didn't understand her one bit. She challenged me by asking me how. I told her "just get outta here. you're seriously too much." She smiled and flirtatiously left.

I feel like i'm getting tooled hard here and it's really pissing me off. I totally shut her out and I even pushed her into the LJBF zone but i don't know what the hell she's trying to pull. Now it's my mission in life to get down and have crazy sex with this girl. I have to do it now. It's no longer a choice.

How in the god damn hell do I go about this?

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Heh,

Sounds like a do or die moment to me.

I'd move for the kiss already and see what that does. But that's just me. If she pulls away, she's prolly toolin ya. If she reciprocates, I am still calling her a serial monogamist because all signs point to that, for me... (my last GF was the same way).

She might also be a FPUA. They do exist, and she might be playing you. LOL

Happy hunting sir. You got more game than me. and more patience too


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Love this post, and you run great game captain, keep it up !!
Though i don't mess with girls who are taken, good luck to you :))

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I just wrote a post in response to someone elses thread and I came to what by now should be a very obvious conclusion.

I have gotta let this shit go!!!

On a positive note all the studying I did with this chick resulted in me getting a perfect 100 on the chem test (the only 100% in a class of 90).

Okay I'm seriously hoping this is the last time I visit this thread for another post.

Wish me luck

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