I'm going to lay it out, unlike 90% of women out there that deny it.

Women love assholes.

BUT! And I say but because this but is really important if you are or plan on becoming an asshole.

It's the 'concentration', so to speak, of asshole that matters here.

If you come across as >80% asshole, it's probably not going to workout with women. Okay, maybe one night stands, easy lays, mentally messed up girls.

But for normal women, you're probably not going to hook her in long-term relationship speaking.

See, you have to show your nice, gentle, caring side first before you squeeze in the asshole. I'm not saying be a door mat. Be confident, but confidently nice. Then, when you've got that connection, you can introduce the asshole.

I'm not saying treat her like shit (though some women, and men!, lap that up), but you can sprinkle it here and there.

I've noticed this too with men. If I'm sweet girl 100%, he loses interest, or mistreats me, or blows me off, etc. But if I'm a little bitchy, a little demanding, a little aggressive, his interest spikes up. He wants me more. He does more. He tries harder to please.