Southern Gentleman You are one bright light bulb good sir, u must have been in the game a while or are a fast learner lol. Everything u said abt nice guys is true. I did the over complimenting, no backbone, thirsty for attention shit for far too long and took me 24 yrs to learn that women don't want that and looking at it from there perspective I wouldn't want it either. I just think it takes some dudes like us a little longer to figure it out. That being said you hit the nail on the head. Don't be a douche (unless that's who you really are and or your thing) because that won't help you either. Be a gentleman who can also sometimes be mean. Seldom be an asshole but always demand respect and always go the extra mile to help those who need and deserve it which is a lot of ppl. And I love the building a lifestyle. That's exactly what I'm doing now. I was In a long 6 yr relationship and it's been done for a few months. That and some unwise financial endeavors has made me broker then ever. But I'm working on everything. My bank account is rising with my self esteem. By next yr I'll be a quarter century old and I'll have everything going for me. =]

thanks man, i just turned 21 a couple weeks ago, i've been wanting to get back in pick up for a while but i want to really build that lifestyle first, the GQ suave bachelor style