You really don't want to drink when you go out... AT ALL.

For several reasons...

1. Like skills said in his article, you destroy the possibility of creating reference experiences. You can not control alcohol to go directly and only to the portion of your brain that controls your inhibitions. It will fuck up your memory... and if you don't learn something, the night was a waste.

2. Girls don't like a guy who is sloppy drunk. There is a very, very, very fine line between "buzzed" and "throwing up on yourself." Do you really think a girl is going to want to come home with you to clean up your vomit? Do you really expect a girl to get in the car with you or even be seen with you as you are stumbling out of the club? I hope not.

3. You are forming your personality based around you being drunk. When you are sober, you won't have the same personality. Go out and build your personality in a clear state of mind. It might be a little bit more painful at first, but you will benefit much more in the long run.

100% agreed.

Although, majority of people only can hook up when they are drunk, which is shame but is also a good thing for guys like us.

The perfect way to tell if a PUA relies on alcohol game.....avoids day game like the plague.

I hate daygame , but it did wonders for my confidence and made my night game sober better and more efficient.

Thank for your replies guys, you mostly concentrated on the alcohol thing, but even more important than alcohol for me was the company of your group of friends or at least of people you know.

It's hard for me to believe one can be as natural, as social and have the same chances of having a good time whether you are alone or with friends.

And I'm not just talking about girls, but in general..


BTW, on the alcohol subject, even though I very rarely get very drunk I do enjoy a few drinks when going out, so I do have a few drinks usually .

Friends I find to be more of a comfort thing. I generally split and do my own thing and move from club to club with them but open solo or open sets if my wing is with me.

Guys, having a drink or two and being drunk is not the same thing.

Heres the thing man, you are a bit more mature. Figure you are talking to guys between the ages of 18-23. They don't know the difference between having "a drink or two" and being shit housed. They don't know about self control and moderation yet. That's why I am suggesting none at all.