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How many times have you heard the same bullshit that all you need in this world or the next is self confidence and all of your dating and sex life problems will be solved?. Well let me tell you something. That is a bunch of BS! Confidence is not enough any more to master yourself, your social environment and your dating and sex life.
The world has changed. There are more douche bags out there, rougher and tougher men, the media has shifted the way a man should be today(Example-The UFC), meaning Alpha, tough, masculine, not just merely confident in speech but weak in persona and attitude. What does this mean? You have to start working out, pack on some muscle, strengthen your inner paradigm, be dominant amongst other men and leader like in social and inter sexual situations.
In other words, you need to exhibit signs of physical and mental "Warrior-like" strength. Women expect this today based on the fact that so many men today are working out, getting leaner, meaner, tougher, stronger and more dominant and they want the King Supreme of this bunch as they always have. Make sense?
Another reason for this is because there is more violence, disease as well as competition for scarce resources in the world today. As a result, women are finding themselves increasingly attracted to men with a superior immunoresponse to disease, which occurs as a result of increased musculature. They are also finding themselves more attracted to men who are strong willed and minded, persistent, dominant, driven, brave and courageous to beat out the fierce competition for scarce resources. Those men that foster these traits and only those that do are labelled as "sex worthy" by the opposite sex. Once again confidence on its own is so yesterdays news!
The Global economic climate is volatile and reaching a state of massive depression. What does this mean? Women now want you to be business, money, wealth minded and savvy so you know how to make money in case things knock you off your rocker financially. In addition Hollywood's display of rich, well spoken, versed and handsome millionaires with that Pierce Brosnan or Daniel Craig type look aren't helping your cause either. They have cornered you into the position of having to be money savvy, worldly and debonair today.
Yet most men still seem to think that simply exhibiting confidence all the while being penniless, broke, uneducated, non-worldly, non-dominant is enough to attract a high quality woman today. Forget about it!
The 9-5 working man is become decreasingly attractive to women. I am not saying that you have to become self -employed but you must become worldly, educated, well spoken and be a subject matter expert in the area of "finances", given your own specific financial situation. Women expect this out of you today.
Women are being influenced by mass media(Reality TV shows more so than anything else and movies) and being conditioned that what is attractive today is a man who is "dominant, leader like, take charge, worldly, debonair, entrepreneurial, professional, upscale, high status".
Some examples include: Magic Mike, 300, Troy, Gladiator, Warrior, Shooter, Entourage, Sex and the City, etc. Do you see how they have raised the bar, big time on what is expected out of a man today to be given a "sex worthy, high status Alpha king" label by women? Good! Let's raise the fuckin' bar on ourselves then.
What's that? Did you say that you don't believe that women want a debonair and dominant man today? Well the book- "50 shades of Grey" is the new Bible for legions of women across the world. Is it based on mere coincidence or is it based on the fact that women identify within themselves a "new" need for a man who is more than just confident, but one who is "dominant and debonair" and a true top feeder? Case closed!
So what do you do now? First, change your thinking and align it with the needs of women today. That's right! You will have to come to terms with the stone cold fact which is this-Women of exceptional beauty and quality today want and expect a Warrior, a dominant alpha King Cobra, coupled with a money and business savvy, honourable, respectful, worldly, educated gentleman all rolled up into one, like a nice fat Monte Cristo Cigar.
Consequently, you will need to become more educated, worldly, muscular, resilient, dominant over other men, a leader in social situations, money savvy, well versed, well spoken and socially intelligent, if you want to and expect to attract a high quality mate today. Times have changed and you must also change with them.
As Denzel Washington said appropriately, to Ethan Hawke in the fabulous movie "Training Day"...
"You are either a sheep or a wolf"
Pick one!!!!!!
I agree with this. The only problem is that since I've upped my game and embodied this, I find all my available female options "boring" as they just aren't at that level. In a way I've out gamed myself into no-mans land.
I'm starting to think that in essence these pressures have made me take myself too seriously I'm now missing the mark. Either that or through that process I grew up some, hard to say.
I will say however that today's "modern women" has really lowered the bar quality wise. Girls are so selfish and superficial these days that frankly I find most of the common "HB8-10's" completely obnoxious anymore. It's sad really.
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