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PostPosted: Mon Jun 17, 2013 12:51 pm 
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I would retort but there's no point on a forum like this.


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PostPosted: Mon Jun 17, 2013 1:37 pm 
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I would retort but there's no point on a forum like this.
It's okay.

But I do agree with you intensely that a success-oriented perspective rather than a rejection-oriented perspective can do a lot for your game.

It's just that a guy who sees people go in and out of a car showroom everyday and used to earn his living from making a sale has skills that will take you a lot of time to learn on your own. That scratch on the eyebrow, that sigh, those murmurings and so on; maybe you can read those on body language books, but the subtle ways these are displayed can only be pointed out face-to-face by a very observant mentor.

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PostPosted: Mon Jun 17, 2013 4:14 pm 
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You believe pick-up is like a sale? Or are you just making an analogy to general experience.

Also if you've seen Steve Jabba's infield videos, he's a joke.


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PostPosted: Mon Jun 17, 2013 7:49 pm 
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Rejection is meaningless so therefore its nothing to consider.

In fact rejection is the incorrect terminology.

Focus on success and fun never rejection. I'd rather analyse one success than one failure. Sure notice what happens in your rejections but don't read into them too much because AT BEST all you''l have to look at is what went wrong.

PU is mainly to do with belief, so focusing on your successes will reinforce your belief you are attractive and get bitches.

Stay away from the weird side of PU.
If you are "content" with small success, you will never seek bigger successes. Because you are already content. And unless you are willing to risk rejection when you want and accept the fact that you suck and you did something wrong vs thinking "I'm the shit, they all just suck" when you DO get rejected, you will keep getting less than you could actually be getting if you would instead just improve yourself.

Should you harp on rejections? No. But you should always learn from them. I'm saying don't see rejection as a negative thing.

Understanding is an unfathomable task.

I never said be content. But getting rejected doesn't get you good at this. Its just a fact of cold approach.

What makes you good is the successes and experiences. Don't even think about rejection.

But then again you would make it more difficult or seem harder because you do boot-camps and you're own 'method' which makes you bias.

I have nothing to gain from my help. Just go out, speak to girls and fucking go for it.

In short: Getting rejected lots doesn't make you good but its what will inevitably happen.

EDIT: A $1000 for this advice hahahaha! you make chatting up girls seem hard and boring. Its not even rejection.

Rejection/Reject, according to Google, means to "Dismiss as inadequate, inappropriate, or not to one's taste.
". But humans and human interaction is far too complex to say it was 'rejection', just 'not now', the amount of girls I've spoken to who 'rejected' me, only to end up speaking or even fucking a different night in the same club.

Its always on.

The best way to get good at this? Speak to girls and go for it. You'll figure out the rest without giving your money to this guy.
What I'm saying is that in order to learn, you must try new things and get rejected so you learn what doesn't work. If something ISN'T working and you keep trying it saying "Its gonna work eventually" you will go insane. The definition of insanity is repeating the same process and expecting a different result. That's why so many guys get into pick up and then quit because they can't figure it out. Because they are AFRAID OF TRYING SOMETHING NEW, THEY ARE AFRAID OF THE REJECTION THAT MAY COME ALONG WITH TRYING SOMETHING NEW, AND THEY REFUSE TO ADMIT THAT WHAT THEY ARE DOING IS WRONG BECAUSE THE REJECTION DAMAGES THEIR EGO. You fucking moron. Read the post if you want to comment on it next time. We clear? Cool.


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PostPosted: Mon Jun 17, 2013 8:04 pm 
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Rejection is the polish we use to refine our technique and each one removes more and more of our flaws in pick up in an incremental process till the method is flawless like buffed chrome.

Its not the person who is being rejected-the girl knows nothing about you- it's the approach or the technique you used. In the words of an unknown philosopher many years ago upon leaving a club in Newcastle on a snowy December night with just his friend in tow "well, I've learned loads of new ways on how not to pull girls tonight"....wise words indeed :roll:


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PostPosted: Mon Jun 17, 2013 8:59 pm 
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Lol at you flaming (against forum rules) because I mentioned your little business.

I read your overly wrong post. Its wrong.


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 18, 2013 4:40 am 
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Also if you've seen Steve Jabba's infield videos, he's a joke.
I have to disagree with you on this.

I've seen 2 or 3 of his videos and I think he isn't a joke. He just looks like a street monkey chasing vaginal life support systems on the streets. I can see that Jabba has some skill but he is not as sophisticated and suave like Justin Wayne yet not so crude like that Johnny Berba dude.

Also, some of Steve Jabba's blog posts make sense but not as well and clearly explained as some of you here can do. I still think he's legit though and he has some street skills that will probably take me several months to find out on my own.

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