You talking about bad mindset?

1) Your job SHOULD REFLECT the person you are. If you only work to pay the bills then you're not living enough. You might think you are happy but that's only because you don't realize how much happier you could be.

2) I don't want to live a normal life. You the religious type aren't you? I don't believe in after life shit, I have only one life, and I will experience it fully. And living a normal life is not worth it. I'm doing crazy things. I put myself through shit deliberately and I enjoy every moment of it because I always fail to fail. I might not succeed the first try, or the second, but I will only fail when I stopped trying.

3) Getting his life together fucking involves women you know. That's the normal thing. Primal instict. Can't work against it. Or you suggest he should be wanking for the next 6 years? How the fuck do you think that would work out? He's socially awkward enough already, yet you advice him to stop trying for a while. He will be so inexperienced it will take 10000% times more work for him to get past even AA, let alone get lays.

4) You can be the boring person you want to be, but please don't advice other people to be like that because this forum is not about how to live a normal life. It's about building a life that you enjoy every second of it, and if you just stay in your comfort zone then nothing great is going to happen.

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This post isn't really worth responding to in full. I can tell most making these comments lack real life experience or regrets. Regret happens to us all, even the most optimistic and well rounded of us have regrets. I can tell both of you have neither experience nor regret. The truth is you will never always find the things that you "love" to do. That's fanciful bull shit prompted by individuals who say that money doesn't mater etc. Blah blah blah. In fact, it's nearly impossible to always find what you love to do. Finding something that you like to do or can do is more realistic.

I'm not "religious" I don't know what ever made you believe that. I'm openly bisexual and atheist and have been so for awhile now. I've said it on the website for years now.

Yes getting his life together does involve women, but it also involves the resources necessary to get to women such a vehicle, or enough money for an entry fee into an establishment. As for the socially awkward part, I'm not sure how important that is in his life right now. Boo hoo he'll be 27 and awkward? He wouldn't be the first nor the last guy. Pick up is actually meant for guys who are in the mid to late 20s. It assumes that you already have your house in order and now you're simply trying to improve socially. Pick up has never been about improving the circumstances of a guys life outside of the social arena. Guys in the late 20s tend to be more well rounded, experienced, and emotionally mature enough to handle the stark realities that are apparent when talking to women.

No body said anything about a comfort zone, just being realistic, not pessimistic. First he has to get out of the dump he's in, then he can move toward new goals. It's unfortunate that pragmatism and reality are seen as limitations. It's really unfortunate because so many people could be living so much better lives, but a lot of people spend their time in la la land. I went through the exact situation he's going through now. There is a way out, but it does involve money. A lot of the issues whether you realize it or not, involve money. He wasn't the only person on this forum who had this issue. Fatalkill was notorious for not having the means to go meet women. Establishing the means to go out and meet women casually are his number one priority if he ever wishes to speak with them on a regular basis and improve. If he doesn't want to take this route, he can always move to a city. But that involves getting a job first and then having enough money to actually put down on an apartment. He's months away from that minimum, if not a year or two.

Guess what. I don't have a car. Nor a driver license. Still banging women. I agree money is necessary though, of course you need something to eat and somewhere to live. Anything beyond that is totally unnecessary. Of course I don't have regrets. Anything that has happened to me and was unpleasant made me stronger and got me to the point where I am. Why would I regret anything? I didn't catch some fatal disease or something like that. I would definitely feel regret then... But other than I don't see why can't I just enjoy life. I don't agree with you can't do what you love. I'm going to be a doctor. I'm going to save lives. That's what I want to do, and that's what I always wanted. It's my dream from the age of 5 and 17 years later I'm still on track and never even remotely missed. Every pessimistic says he's realistic. In reality everyone is realistic because what you expect that you get. Simple as that.

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Are you fucking kidding me? Cut it out with the online dating shit because you seriously need to have a REAL, face to face, social interaction with a girl. You don't think your job says something about who you are? Really? You mean to tell me what you spend 40, 50, 60, 70, 80 hours a week doing doesn't have anything to do with who you are as a person? You really think it doesn't show something about who you are and your personality? Whether you are a leader or a follower?

If you actually fucking GO OUT and meet and fuck hot women, like you are supposed to as a young adult.... (YOUR DICK WILL EVENTUALLY STOP WORKING ONCE YOU HIT A CERTAIN AGE!! DO IT WHILE YOU CAN!!!) You will notice that ALL girls will eventually bring up the question "So, what do you do?" and if you say some LAME ASS ANSWER like "I'm a construction worker" or "I'm a Occupational Therapist" they will see you as a LAME ASS GUY. You're done there. Girls want someone who is interesting. There are tons of lame ass guys out there. Women want a guy who lives the lifestyle of a "rockstar."

Keep doing what you are doing dude... Don't ever question authority. Be like "most people"... Be average. Be someone who really dies at the age of 30 but don't actually get buried until you are in your 70s or 80s. Let yourself go into auto pilot so you can have that "comfort" and "stability" because thats what society encourages you to do. Quit taking life so fucking seriously.

Strangerj, If you want to be a musician and pursue a career in that industry... I encourage you to do it. Don't doubt yourself. Don't listen to anyone who tells you that you can't do it or you will never make it.Don't put it off until "tomorrow." Put yourself through it. There is no such thing as failure. All you need to do is keep adjusting your course of action and keep your goals in mind. NEVER give up. 80% of success comes from persistence. You will go through alot of shit. You will get fucked over alot. You will be torn apart by people.

Take massive fucking action and figure out what the fuck it is you need to do to become a fucking rockstar. No matter what your goal is in life... have that "rock star mentality" of I AM GOING TO FUCKING MAKE HAPPEN WHAT I WANT TO MAKE HAPPEN!

This conversation is so pesky and immature that I personally won't even bother to delve deeper into it. You can double up on the ignorance, foolishness, and youthful brashness if you want. I personally won't continue. As for your comment on jobs, that's just about the dumbest, most immature, and really naïve responses I've seen in awhile. Who said never question authority? Stay in the margins? That's an assumption by a guy I'm pretty sure lives in his moms basement but proclaims to be a guru and have a hot life. We all know your type on this website you aren't fooling anyone.


As to the OP, my apologies I didn't see that you posted that you wanted to be a musician. A musician is actually not a bad job if you play your cards rights. Depending on your style or the venues you could actually make 6 figures. I know this may sound "boring", but also consider a back up like being a music teacher. Doesn't mean that's what you have to do with your life. Just means when the job markets tough you'll have a legit gig to go back to. I actually have a lot of information about how to become a reasonably successful musician. One of my cousins actually makes good money doing it. He makes jingles etc. A book you should read is "The Amazing Adventures Of A Marginally Successful Musician ". In it he has common sense advice to musicians about how to make some good bucks while doing what you love. Hope that helps, good luck.

LOL keep living your average life and getting average girls and blaming external factors on your ability to become nothing more than average. Stay in your little comfort bubble. Never do anything that might kill you or set you back a bit and have the hopes that it might get you somewhere closer to your dream life.

"Wahhhh! Why does he have it so easy!? WAHHH!" Cry baby bitch.

And don't pretend like you know my life fool... You have not the slightest clue what I've been through. Nor will you ever know what its like because you are too much of a gaping vagina to ever put yourself through it. You know where I went to school? Harvard on Halsted. The school of hard knocks mother fucker. I've been through shit and seen shit that you would never even have nightmares of. And I wouldn't have it any other way.

You are encouraging him to settle for something like a "music teacher" and not be persistant in his dream... you are nothing but a weak, average, brainwashed by society, bitch. Weak people, like you, give up and settle for less and then begin to justify to themselves that mediocrity is enough. Strong people keep pushing because they want more.... and they get it because they want it bad enough. This is probably why you still suck with women and stick with online dating. You are afraid of the failure and hard work to fix yourself.

Once again, you need to stop taking life so seriously and thinking "it's all about the money you make." It's not about what you make... it's about how you got there and how you made it... That is called actually LIVING. Then, once you actually make it where YOU want to be (not where society tells you to be)... you have something to celebrate. There is no reason to celebrate your "average life."

I'm not responding to you anymore. This is worse than arguing evolution with a creationist. I could have a more intelligent conversation with wall than you...

Hehe, CAPS and SCREAMING MAKES PEOPLE LISTEN TO YOU MORE! Let's double up on the foolishness and stupidity. Maybe you'll get your point across.

*Did you say creationist really?* Now I know for sure you're just trolling.

Dlow: I have to completely disagree with you. I know plenty of individuals who are completely devoted to their job because they love it. For example, I know a lot of individuals who studied education in school to become a teacher, obviously. Those people are not doing it for any grand paycheck as teachers are not paid very handsomely. There is a passion they have, and can live with the pay.

It is opportunity cost, in a way. They give up some extra on that paycheck to do what they love, day in and day out. After I read that piece of your post, I discontinued reading anymore. Sorry.

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You're so petty and pathetic Majikal. This is the second time you done this. First SLIPKNUTZ now this account "Playboi_".

This is not a pua lounge post to begin with. Please pay attention to the rules or it can lead to disciplinary action.

THREAD LOCKED.

Play nice.

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