No, the point is idiots like you go trolling around for AFC behavior and desperately seek it out whether it exists or not. Which in of itself is AFC as fuck. Go fuck a woman and stop telling me what to do. My sex life is what it is, and i dont ascribe a sense of value to it, just enjoyment. So what i'm supposedly 'worth' because of sex doesn't fucking matter to me, what matters is i have a fucking blast. If it matters to you, fine. Your opinions of your sex life are your problem. Your opinions of MY sex life are still your problem.

Dude. You sound like an intelligent guy. You have all the scientific formulae but you have no common sense. You started this thread to brag, to get approval from other guys. Now you're saying anyone who points out AFC behaviour on this forum is AFC for pointing it out? You're basically calling every PUA on this forum AFC??

I guess if I was an asexual eunuch, then yes, I would class taking photos of women as "having a blast". Otherwise i will stick to gaming and fucking girls, rather than admiring them and just looking at them. As for being a photographer, its just like any other job and I'd only do it if the money was good enough.

PUA is about learning where your weaknesses are and fixing them. You seem like the type of person who cannot accept fault even when it is staring you in the face and you get ultra-defensive about your actions. So it's no wonder that snapping photos of bikini clad girls is an achievement in your book. We all have to start somewhere bro. There's no shame in being inexperienced, we were all there once.

In Mystery Method he specifically says he will avoid taking photos on nights out when girls ask him to as it's a dead and he would rather be an asshole than somebody's lackie. With this advice in mind, when some girls asked me and my mate to take a photo of them, we avoided it, saying sarcastically that we would only mess it up and we couldn't live with screwing up something so important.

I'm curious as to how being a professional photographer might or might not change this dynamic. I'm assuming you'd be subject to the same constraints that you face when trying to game anyone you work with, plus your role has an element of subservience about it i.e they're the focus as they're in front of the camera and you're not. Even if you take some amazing shots, that might help your career, but I doubt anyone's going to suck your dick for it.

So yeah, add me to the list of the unconvinced...

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I'm not saying ANYONE is AFC just because they're on a forum. I'm saying the douches AFC tagging me like i'm some kind of attention whore is AFC as fuck. They're intentionally mistaking excitement for insecurity, just so they have some flaw to point out to make them look like they have big boy pants on now to the rest of the "gang". Who happens to be an internet forum full of people you've never met and probably will not meet. Remember that normal human emotion that most NORMAL people feel when they have a photoshoot with bikini models? I forgot i was in a site full of insecure vain douchebags who bullshit like they dont feel anything anymore and everything is about some rational sort of "ego" they have to protect, rather than the experiences of whatever they happen to be feeling at the moment. I was excited, so i posted what i felt.

Anyway you might not understand the complex, bizarre idea of expressing your emotions, but i'm sure you can understand logic. Defensiveness does not implicate guilt. It implicates you're being a fucking dick and i feel the need to retaliate. to NOT stand up to you would be the insecure move. And you can try to blur the line between pride and arrogance but the fact of the matter is you're the one claiming to know the extent of my self worth and i am just the one correcting you. Trying to correct me otherwise is not just arrogant, its downright ridiculous. You don't know me. I'll say it one more time so you hear it. YOU DON'T KNOW ME. You can't possibly assert with any amount of accuracy WHAT my intentions are, so when you go saying shit like that and telling me to "accept my faults", how the fuck do you think that sounds???? Literally fuck yourself in the face, hypocrite.

the next person who tries to ego bash me for being "defensive" will have their self esteem ripped to shreds. i haven't challenged the pride of a single person on this thread but challenge mine and i will defend myself. take that however you like, but know that however you do is a reflection of yourself, nothing more.

Mr Feelgood whether you realize it or not... this was an ego move. Why the fuck does it matter enough to post on a forum? Ask yourself that seriously... Why do you need to say I'm doing this? I don't post up a report every time I get laid or find a cool chick... It doesn't matter. Your success should be for you and no one else, posting it up on the forum shouldn't make you happier or sadder... your success should be it's own reward not our validation of it.

I do want to congratulate you on your success it is very hard to make it in the photography world so I understand your excitement. My buddy is a very good photographer and it is simply hard to get work, so kudos to you for getting it done. Good luck keeping it going... it's a rough industry.

Standing up for yourself is a sign of insecurity, not needing to is a sign of security. Security with who you are and what is going on... needing to get defensive means you have reason to defend. If someone talks shit to me I don't have any reason to defend... I am secure with myself. You thinking you need to stand up for yourself shows you still need to prove yourself, that question is really why? Who the fuck are we that we matter? That is the point we're trying to make.

You're excited cool congrats... but why do you need post it? This is a serious question... WHY DID YOU NEED TO POST IT? There is no reason to share your accomplishments except to build value, those who have value have no need to build it. What did you want out of it? Just to say it to all of us strangers that mean nothing to you? Your actions said something even if it was subconscious... pay close attention to what it said and you'll see what we see.

If you think you could effect anyone through a forum with high self-esteem you don't understand it, now if someone has low self-esteem you can't really rip it to shreds when it is already shredded. Pride isn't a good thing... you can have too much pride but you can't have too much self-esteem. Too much pride in your work limits you from developing further you must be humble and confident in it at the same time.

Again congrats on your success that is awesome... I hope it stays ongoing.

Peace and Love,

Vic

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