PUA Ninja,

If I weren't a hero already, you would be my hero.

I'm gonna go out on a limb and guess your political affiliation is Tea Party, lol
Pretty much this. What do you really need to get girls?
1. Confidence
2. Action
3. Conversational skills (not always needed, but always useful)
How do you keep them afterwards?
1. Make them feel like you get them and you're in different places but on a similar level
2. Be more interesting than other guys

That's about all there is to it, and none of it requires any of the stuff in this post aside from being socially active.

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RSDTyler

Here you can read more:

http://www.amerika.org/politics/charact ... ociety-ii/

As you will notice this is not a religious mindset (unlike the Tea-Party). Also the Tea Party holds that America can somehow return to the principles of the Founding Fathers and survive.

This is not possible, because nowadays we have created a convenience masses-based society, in which the true need to excell is not present. Shallowness and flaky superficial entertainment rule above all. We have invented machines and increased the efficiency of the economy, yet all we seem to do with these extra hours we gained on manual labour, is to fill them with facebook games, glamour television shows, and administrative make-work.

In the time of the Founding Fathers, society had to be built up from scratch in the wilderness, and heroes and geniuses were required. People admired these noble traits of excellence.

Nowadays, moral standards have become subjectivized, and as a result the only remaining (universal) measurement is popularity in mass appeal. In practice this means sales rates, meaning the lowest common denominator. The smartest kids in class makes the rest feel stupid, and so a behaviour/attitude/peer culture is created in which it is "not cool" to rise above the rest. Society actively discourages this, because being well-read is "nerdy," "dusty" whatever. All the great important spiritual/moral/intellectual values are being replaced by materialist values; such as the mom who wants to organize a sweet sixteen party for her daughter, including fancy dresses, out of fear that else her daughter will be excluded and bullied by the community.

As a result, society, and thus women, are increasingly superficial, and the traits of excellence are scorned because they want a guy who they can control. A guy who buys them jewellery, and who talks about superficial chit-chat shit so that they don't have to feel poorly educated or stupid in his vicinity.

Your experience is pretty different from mine. I've usually had rather positive responses to my intelligence and education. And I live in fucking Georgia o_O
How old are you and where you from?

An Enlightened Autocracy... It's not that I disagree with such an idea in principal. I've long said that we'd be best served by a true Aristocracy. But a system like that would only work in philosophical, hypothetical way. In reality, it just tends to end up as an authoritarian regime. I don't really see things as being hopelessly broken in America. Which is what I'd require to consider tossing out our current governmental system

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RSDTyler

Thank you for processing these thoughts, it is very much appreciated.

This one article goes a bit more in-depth into the experience in terms of education and intelligence you pointed at:

http://www.amerika.org/social-reality/f ... -thy-name/

This more or less describes what I want too, lol. Freedom, romance and sex. Yep. Passion, endearment and no strings. Yep. Loved and understood but freedom to do as I please. Yep. Fun yet smart girl. Yep. Horny. Obviously. The last three sections are kinda female specific, but yeah, I'm on board with most of this

I wonder if this is why I get on so well with nearly all of my exes.

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RSDTyler

Be a man, for fuck's sake. Be consistent, be firm as a brick. Bear privations, focus on long-term objectives, sacrifice short-term pleasure. Ignore whims, pay attention to consequences. Control your inner life, heed reason, and labour tirelessly.

Be the hero that once shaped Western civilization to a beacon of philosophy, science, and culture.

Be everything that this fickle Hollywood style shallow consumerist society seeks to suffocate.

I'm happy with myself as I am. I feel no need to prove myself through deeds. I live my life by my desires, not for legacy. Legacy is useless to me. When I'm dead, that's it. It brings me no solace to imagine that I could have done this or that to the highest level.

I'm a jack of all trades and king of nothing. And damn proud of it

I learn many things, but only enough to really understand them and then I move on to something new. Mastery is not within me. Any attempts I've made at sticking with something beyond the point it interests me has been soul crushing and unproductive.

You may look at a great man like Julius Caesar or Nicola Tesla and say to yourself you'd like to be like him. I get that. I admire them, but they're not me. And that sort of life doesn't suit me. I don't want power or responsibility. These things are slavery to me. I want freedom and satisfaction. Immediate satisfaction

My life is wrong for you. But your life is wrong for me. We're all different. *Pictures a children's book with different races of children in different ethnic dress all standing in a circle holding hands*. Yeah, it sounds kinda hippieish but it's true! BE THE SNOWFLAKE

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RSDTyler

Yeah, 100% agreed and plus the other 10% will take care of itself if you do these things.

Versalis, you are the type of human that lives by day to day whims, that can only exist because there are serious-minded people who invented the concepts of the technology, the organisation of society, the medicine, logic, and everything else that provides for nowadays mass society.

I am. I'm not cut out to be a great man. Why should I attempt a feat that is beyond me and would crush me in the process? Would you ask someone with an IQ of 80 to be a physicist? Would you ask a man with no legs to to climb a mountain, unaided?

I'm of above average intelligence, but I lack brilliance and vision. A great feat is not in my cards. Perhaps it is in yours and I wish you well on the path of life you've chosen. Perhaps my great, great grandchildren will know your name better than my own. I'm perfectly okay with that.

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RSDTyler

Marville and PUA Ninja have hit the nail on the end, i have also been looking at the sociological reasons of why i have had to resort to PUA material in the last couple of years. Despite being good looking, intelligent, caring, and considerate all the qualities which you are told from a young age will secure you a happy life, especially when it comes to romance.

Instead i have seen that being pragmatic and as PUAninja stated treating them like a pet dog, is the best way to treat women nowadays. Shamefully boys from a young age are raised by feminist teachers promoting their feminist garbage, it all starts with that nursery rhymes, "girls are sugar and spice, boys are puppy dog tails blah blah "
Masculinity is viewed as a non existent thing, and if anything if it is recognised its seen as something dangerous.
This tempering continues in all curriculums from school, and in the entertainment industry, there is barely anything out there that raises boys into men, and we wonder why Male suicide figures are so high, and mental health issues are so rife among males. I use the word " male" because there are very few real men out there.

There is a glimmer of hope though, focus on natural game, not in an attempt to get women and seek validation from them, but focus on becoming a strong man who has adventure, big plans, always focusing on personal development, and one that is in touch but in complete control of their emotions and desires. Also it is a bit of a cop out, but I've noticed that women from other parts of the world are far more feminine and make far better girlfriends than the average western woman from the U.K, and the U.S.A. This is from personal experience however even Eastern Europeans and South Americans are becoming more westernised.

Ultimately men have to be dominating and women have to be submissive, this is the way it is, women who are able to dominate over their men, are partially satisfied but ultimately are very dissatisfied and will cheat on that guy if a true alpha male was to come along, hell even if a jerk who was able to imitate certain alpha characteristics will get this woman.

I strongly advise anyone with 30 minutes to spare, to watch this video, it completely covers the sociological, psychological, evolutionary and political reasons why "nice guys" are destroyed by society and doomed to failure.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a9XDb0nxSO4


My personal advice would be to focus more on yourself, make great changes for yourself and be inspired by the greats like Sir Francis Richard Burton, Tesla, Jimi hendrix, Martin Luther King etc. And just have fun without any attatchment when it comes to women, use Pick up artist techniques for fun and play the game as thats all what it is a game, a game which sociopaths can play naturally. There is no point getting bitter when it comes to this, its just the way it is, learn it and use it to your advantage, don't take rejection personally, its a stupid society and you are blessed with the knowledge, to know how to play this Mofo

Awesome guys, awesome!

Spread the truth! And thanks for the video. Rather long-winded but yes the examples quoted and discussed are a good way to prepare the "nice guys."

Always feel free to respond to my posts or write a private message!!