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PostPosted: Fri Dec 21, 2012 6:33 am 
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I would describe myself as someone who is fairly good looking, smart and quite successful in every aspect of my life. I have a promising future, with great friends and amazing girls around me. However, I could also describe myself as someone who is egoist, narcissist, mean (most of the time) and aggressive.

For some reason that I am not aware of, I have very little patience and it is incredibly easy for me to dislike people. It can be because of the way they carry themselves, the way they talk or look but also for simple things like talking with a group of friends in the stairs on a venue where many people pass by.

When using the metro, I walk in a direction and if I see someone comming in my direction, I will do absolutely no effort to avoid running into that person. If these people, who are always smaller, see me and don't try to avoid running into me, I don't see why I should. Natural selection. I am also rude and blunt with most people I meet, and sometimes secretly wishing to pick fights. Thanks god I train 5 times a week to get rid of some aggressiveness.. Or it would be worst.

I am also a closed-minded person. I don't like to interract with stangers and I don't if I don't have an end goal. I don't see why I should listen to people I don't care about talk about themselves If I don't have anything to gain from this situation. Of course, I cold approach girls but I have a goal in mind, I do it to fuck them or gain experience.

I don't help strangers, and if I do, I usually do it in order to get reconnaissance from other people, which still makes me an egoist.

I realize that I am a bad person, most of you would probably call me an asshole. Worse part is that I probably woulnt give a shit and tell you to fuck off.

Still, I am wondering if ready a book on inner game could be beneficial for me since I am aware that my view on the rest of the world is messed up.
As a fellow MAer, you sound scared. (I know it might hurt to hear that)

You are aware that there is something strange in living your life competitively 24/7. The fact that you are posting about being confrontational shows that you're not dumb, you know something is up with that. Maybe some personal time reflecting on your aggression is worthwhile, or just making a conscious effort to try and not assess other people as threats until that behaviour subsides and is replaced with something a bit healthier or "balanced"?

Hope you figure something out. Sorry I couldn't of been more helpful! :)


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PostPosted: Sat Dec 22, 2012 7:43 am 
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Of course, I would never had written this thread if I thought there was no problem. I am realizing that is probably not an healthy lifestyle. However, I don't feel like being all that "nice guy" persona since it would be fake, and that is clearly not me (I am actually a nice person with my friends, entourages and even when picking up girls, but clearly not with total strangers who can't do anything to improve my life quality).

I was actually thinking of trying meditation as I just got into a fight tonight again at a night club. I think I might of broken my hand on the other guy's face... Anyways, anyone know some meditation exercises?

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PostPosted: Sun Dec 30, 2012 5:35 pm 
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In this world,anyone can be a "bridge"

From the homeless person to the person you judge...

Being an alpha male who is comfy with himself would actually do positive things to help others as well as society in general..

I get approached by all types of people and I always give them the time of day...Not because I expect something,but because my time might have changed their lives...

I think you need to be "humbled"

Go visit a childern's hospital or volunteer at a homeless shelter...

Its pretty clear your not in touch...


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PostPosted: Wed Jan 02, 2013 8:16 am 
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I would describe myself as someone who is fairly good looking, smart and quite successful in every aspect of my life. I have a promising future, with great friends and amazing girls around me. However, I could also describe myself as someone who is egoist, narcissist, mean (most of the time) and aggressive.

For some reason that I am not aware of, I have very little patience and it is incredibly easy for me to dislike people. It can be because of the way they carry themselves, the way they talk or look but also for simple things like talking with a group of friends in the stairs on a venue where many people pass by.

When using the metro, I walk in a direction and if I see someone comming in my direction, I will do absolutely no effort to avoid running into that person. If these people, who are always smaller, see me and don't try to avoid running into me, I don't see why I should. Natural selection. I am also rude and blunt with most people I meet, and sometimes secretly wishing to pick fights. Thanks god I train 5 times a week to get rid of some aggressiveness.. Or it would be worst.

I am also a closed-minded person. I don't like to interract with stangers and I don't if I don't have an end goal. I don't see why I should listen to people I don't care about talk about themselves If I don't have anything to gain from this situation. Of course, I cold approach girls but I have a goal in mind, I do it to fuck them or gain experience.

I don't help strangers, and if I do, I usually do it in order to get reconnaissance from other people, which still makes me an egoist.

I realize that I am a bad person, most of you would probably call me an asshole. Worse part is that I probably woulnt give a shit and tell you to fuck off.

Still, I am wondering if ready a book on inner game could be beneficial for me since I am aware that my view on the rest of the world is messed up.

Since you've been honest and direct. So will I. Your outlook on life as you have described brought me to the conclusion that your shallow and an ignorant human being. Not entirely so, because your aware of this and your trying to change it. My advice would be to travel, seek knowledge, see the world, in summary step out of the fucking box brotha. I could go on all day but I hope my point is made.

Good luck on your noble journey.


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 05, 2013 1:25 am 
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I would describe myself as someone who is fairly good looking, smart and quite successful in every aspect of my life. I have a promising future, with great friends and amazing girls around me. However, I could also describe myself as someone who is egoist, narcissist, mean (most of the time) and aggressive.

For some reason that I am not aware of, I have very little patience and it is incredibly easy for me to dislike people. It can be because of the way they carry themselves, the way they talk or look but also for simple things like talking with a group of friends in the stairs on a venue where many people pass by.

When using the metro, I walk in a direction and if I see someone comming in my direction, I will do absolutely no effort to avoid running into that person. If these people, who are always smaller, see me and don't try to avoid running into me, I don't see why I should. Natural selection. I am also rude and blunt with most people I meet, and sometimes secretly wishing to pick fights. Thanks god I train 5 times a week to get rid of some aggressiveness.. Or it would be worst.

I am also a closed-minded person. I don't like to interract with stangers and I don't if I don't have an end goal. I don't see why I should listen to people I don't care about talk about themselves If I don't have anything to gain from this situation. Of course, I cold approach girls but I have a goal in mind, I do it to fuck them or gain experience.

I don't help strangers, and if I do, I usually do it in order to get reconnaissance from other people, which still makes me an egoist.

I realize that I am a bad person, most of you would probably call me an asshole. Worse part is that I probably woulnt give a shit and tell you to fuck off.

Still, I am wondering if ready a book on inner game could be beneficial for me since I am aware that my view on the rest of the world is messed up.
Probably the most unconventional advise offered here, I would advocate a one time use of MDMA. The legitimate effects of the drug never reach the uninterested individual due to propaganda since its initial placement as a schedule 1 drug. As a personal experience, I finally felt like I understood "empathy" through my experience with it. I am confident you will experience a revelation regarding your consciousness and its role on your temperament for social interactions. Do your own research into the adverse effects of the drug obviously, but I can tell you after reading thousands of pages on the molecule, you will absolutely benefit from doing so.


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PostPosted: Tue Mar 19, 2013 11:54 pm 
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So why write this.. you wrote this on a forum amongst people with similar personality traits. I'd assume it was because you were hoping for a reply? If you were hoping for a reply from us then that must mean something to you. So what does it mean to you?


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PostPosted: Wed Mar 20, 2013 12:49 am 
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i commented on this post a while back, in the exact same position as you were, and i saw the post by the guy recommending MDMA, which i completely agree with.

I'm going to sum up my experience with the drug as: it changed me for the better. I still hold my ambitions and dreams, but i am much friendlier with people and the experience itself opened me up to an entire other side of myself i didn't know existed. And by chance, i really enjoyed it. Not just the drug, but the bond i felt with other people from there on out.

Don't be an idiot with it, understand that this drug was actually made for almost this^ exact reason. I've only taken it once and am probably not going to take it again for a significant period of time, but as i said, it really did open my eyes


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