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PostPosted: Sun Nov 04, 2012 10:26 pm 
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I think a better option that still communicates the same basic message is, "Are you ready to go?"

For one, it's not nearly as classless as your suggestion, meaning she is less likely to feel like a 'dirty slut' as a result of you asking it. It also implies that her going home with you is a foregone conclusion rather than something up for debate. You're not asking her IF she wants to, but WHEN, which is always a more useful conversational frame - not to mention more successful.

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I dont think you guys are understanding the situation I am describing. You have already approached the girl, you have already attracted the girl, you have already gotten the girl to your crib and then at your crib, in the privacy of your home, you ask her "do you want to have sex?
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PostPosted: Mon Nov 05, 2012 2:22 pm 
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I don't like the idea of saying "Do you want to have sex?" because it's beta/AFC. It's asking permission and not displaying confidence. It also sets things up to be awkward because it's basically acknowledging that you are skipping foreplay. I agree with Mantis about not verbalizing it.

I would much rather just lean in and start kissing her neck and start undoing her bra while saying nothing, rather than asking her if she wants to do it.

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PostPosted: Mon Nov 05, 2012 6:30 pm 
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I don't like the idea of saying "Do you want to have sex?" because it's beta/AFC. It's asking permission and not displaying confidence. It also sets things up to be awkward because it's basically acknowledging that you are skipping foreplay. I agree with Mantis about not verbalizing it.

I would much rather just lean in and start kissing her neck and start undoing her bra while saying nothing, rather than asking her if she wants to do it.
You're supposed to ask for permission


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