The purpose of an approach is to take a person to a certain place mentally, to bring them a certain mindset where they think of you as attractive. In doing this, even if you don’t have much skill, you want to be quick and resolved.

1.) Quick, meaning you want to get to the point as soon as possible; get your words out before you miss your chance.

2.)Resolve, as in you say your words as if you don’t care if people like them or not; committing to your statements like this will make them more believable. If you sound like you doubt yourself or you are ashamed of yourself that feeling will rub off on your audience and they will doubt you.

3.) Remember, don’t drift. Never drift. You are trying to steer. Steer the conversation in a direction, to a mindset, to a manner of thinking where you are attractive. To do this you need to know what you intend to say. ...maybe not word for word, but your direction needs to be known