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I keep hearing people saying "Get the girl drunk, then you will get laid"
I never have been drunk before, I don't even drink that much when I go parties due to gym and boxing that i go to. So I have no idea. How do alcohol effect people and espically with girls? Will they be easier to pull than a regular girl?
get drunk one time, you will understand, fully aware of what you are doing, but your nervous system is depressed and you lower your inhibitions (less self conscious/caring about what people think of you)
when girls say, ''I was so drunk I don't remember'' that usually just means they did something they do remember, but don't want to take responsibility for, most people no matter how drunk they get, can remember what they did unless they have succumb to alcohol poisoning, how ever you are prone to making choices you would not otherwise make when you have not been drinking excessively (for example dancing on a table in front of a bunch of people and ripping your shirt off for no other reason then WOOOOOOOOOOOOOO PARTY TIME!!) this sort of thing might be less appealing when you are sober, because you might think... hmm that would make me look like an ass, when you are drunk, that thought just might not cross your mind, instead you might just think WOOOOOOOOO PARTY TIME!! *rip*
how do you pick up a drunk girl?, same as picking up a sober girl, she just might care a little less if her friends know about it, or care a little less if you aren't perfect (a drunk guy might never want to touch a girl he deems lower then a hb7, get him drunk and horny and he might just fuck a 4-5 just to get it out of his system cause he doesn't care what other people think about him, and he only actually has that rating standard to being with because he is self conscious of what others would think of him to not be with a ''hot'' girl)
once again playa, you won't figure out some secret trick that you have been missing this whole time, there is no magical thing to do or say, just stop being afraid go talk to some girls, and try to kiss them, if you are nervous just ask them, that simple, once you have a girl that is up for kissing/making out, get her to spot alone where the two of you can have sex, and proceed to feel her up and get naked
if you want to know ''how'' it works, its really simple, you go up to a girl, and she either thinks you present yourself well and are high in status among men (good looking, smelling nice, and confident, possibly has cool friends, possibly has money), or she doesn't think you presented yourself well, based off this and how open to the idea she is of meeting someone at that current time, as well as how nervous she gets around new people will dictate the type of response you get initially, the more positive the impression generally, the more into you she probably is to begin with, the more negative, the more work it will take on your end (but you must screen for compliance because some girls are just always social and friendly with everyone, and some girls are always just bitchy and anti social with everyone), there is not some secret thing to say, a girl that thinks you are utterly hot and the perfect image of what her dream man would look like, she may be hoping to make out with you without a single word being spoken, all you need is the courage to do it, and some girls no matter how you look just need some time to get to know you because they are just not that comfortable getting intimate with someone they don't know, and a girl who thinks your are butt-fucking ugly, will not want to kiss you no matter what you say or do with her, and if you get to know her well, she may want to be your friend but she won't offer up compliance that falls within a sexual frame that simple, if you are physically passable to that girl but not quite her definition of perfectly hot man, she may be more on the fence and in that case, just get up on her, make it more your fault then her fault, take all the risks, offer some value to the interaction so she likes you as a person (aka generates some feelings of attraction towards you), the more she likes you as a person the more likely the idea of making out with you will become more appealing, and if it is an ego thing for her and she just doesn't want to be seen making out with a guy that isn't the perfect definition of a 8+/10 in regards to looks, don't let her take responsibility for kissing or anything, just do it, that way her ego can't get as involved because you are not asking anything of her, you are just doing it, and if she likes it there is nothing to say no to, it's just fun, and it feels good to her and she didn't get much of a choice but to enjoy it, but if she isn't into you, she won't be having fun when you try to do anything, she will show you with her body language and everything else she does that she is not interested, it's that easy man, the more she thinks of you and respects you and sees good qualities behind you, the more she will be into it, and remember this doesn't mean spending 2 months demonstrating qualities to her, all that demonstrates to a girl is you are afraid and she doesn't mean enough for you to take a risk....
how you get from point A to point Z is dependent on you, people can give you all the tricks in the world, won't work if you sit on your ass and do nothing asking the same questions on this forum for months when it is evident you never test any of them out or make any attempts at all to use any information
if you need some sort of ''right thing to do'', just pick a pick-up e-book, read it one time, then go do what the book says, THE KEY HERE BEING, GO DO IT, knowledge won't get you laid, it can help improve your chances, but it doesn't make them, going out and trying to get laid will get you laid, no book or article on a forum is going to turn you into a pimp, no magical words will change your situation and suddenly have girls flocking to you, if you stay the same and don't change your habits, your life will stay the same
escalation buddy, if you never move things forward, neither will girls, your abs won't help you, and if you hate your face, that is not the reason girls are not all over you, it is simple, girls do not escalate, this is obviously what you want, some magical way to get a girl to escalate on you so you never have to risk being rejected, but it doesn't work like that, you take the risks, and possibly see a reward, higher risk, higher chance of reward, girls reward courage and confidence in the face of fear, guys that can calmly walk into the unknown like there is no risk at all, it is attractive, it's why guys that can do amazing and scary things, are amazing themselves, the more value a girl sees behind you, the less your looks will matter, but she has to at least be willing to see past them to begin with (this is what screening is for, looks are subjective so you must figure out how well she screens, if she doesn't screen well, onto the next one)
just talk to some girls and kiss them dude, come back and ask more questions after you have made out with a few girls, until then, all your questions will be useless for you, making a change to what you do will make more of a difference to your life, then making a change in what you know
if you want to be a player who never dates any girls, the first step is talking to alot of girls, and failing with alot, so that you also succeed with alot, the more you succeed, the more options you will have
GOOD LUCK
CHAT
