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I've not seen the full documentary yet, however I am fully aware of the financial domination / money slavery world, where women 'financial dommes' have been known to take hundreds of thousands of dollars from male 'slaves'.
The men who take part in this usually have very low self-esteem and poor social skills, they are just the type of men who should be on this forum, men who need to improve themselves, their self-respect and self-confidence, especially around women.
The findommes are experts at manipulation and 'brainwash' men into serving them. They employ similar tactics and psychology used to create cults and suicide bombers. Just like the cult/suicide bomber, the findommes look for the type of person who has a psyche/mindset that is easy to mold, that has characteristics conducive to their purpose. They tend to prey on men with low self-esteem, men who are depressed, men who are isolated and have little or no friends or social life. The men are also usually addicted to femdom porn and tend to be submissive sexually.
Most men stumble across financial domination completely by accident in their pursuit of porn. They may have been searching sites like 'clips4sale' for ass worship/femdom/tease and denial clips, and the clip they download, unknown to them at the time, also had a theme of financial domination inside it. Even though it was categorised as 'ass worship' or 'bikini' or 'Tease and denial' or 'female domination' or whatever, it may have those things as a main theme, but will also have a theme of financial domination, which contains a series of suggestions, often NLP/hypnotic, to induce the man to serve the findomme financially. The embedded commands, often very blatant and overt, carry much more effect in a video that arouses high levels of sexual desire. This is an altered state of consciousness in itself, and when watching such a clip one can enter a trance state very easily, which makes the subconscious mind much more susceptible to the commands given. Remember also that sex energy is the most powerful state to induce action (according to Napoleon Hill in Think and Grow Rich). The combination of the trance state, embedded commands, a sexy video that induces lust and the transmutation of this sexual energy (for the findommes goals, not the guys) and you have a dangerous combination for the person susceptible to its influence (i.e. one with the submissive nature, low self-esteem and social isolation the findomme preys on). Most 'regular' men would just ignore it, but if this appeals to her 'target market', then the hidden seed is given water and sustenance and starts to grow. At this point the guy may start buying up more of her clips, visit her website, blog, etc regularly and eventually contact the findomme. Usually when he initially contacts her its NOT to give her his money (unless hes been 'converted' already), its usually for a secondary service, such as orgasm control or chastity, etc which is something which the findomme uses to lure men/prospective slaves in and to get them addicted.
The most common approach is to control the guys orgasms, and only allow them a release/orgasm after he has paid a 'cum tax'. Once he has made this transition, the findomme knows she has a 'live one' and works to convert him into a slave she can milk. She then exploits the 'foot in the door' technique by progressively increase the amount the guy pays to have an orgasm. Over time, with the guy only ever having an orgasm when he pays the women, and the price increasing progressively, this effectively creates an anchor like Pavlov's dogs where spending money on the findomme is linked to orgasm. Once this connection is made, spending money on the domme is pleasurable, even if the slave doesn't actually orgasm (due to the positive anchor created) and the slave also becomes desensitised to spending money, all resistance to parting with money breaks down and this is how slaves have been known to part with tens or even hundreds of thousands of dollars. Whenever the slave spends money (especially large amounts), he is often mentioned in his findommes blog or in a video. This recognition of the slaves efforts gives the slave attention, and also induces social proof and competition among other slaves, who may follow his lead and/or try to outdo the slave by spending more. This competition to be the number 1 slave, and the desire to be noticed and blogged about by the findomme can get very expensive. All that started with $50 the slave paid to have his orgasm controlled. Little did the slave know this was the starting point of financial ruin. It doesn't stop there though. Over time the 'slave' can develop a condition similar to porn induced erectile dysfunction, where he cannot orgasm without actually parting with his money. This means the slave is effectively stuck, and any other porn or sexual stimulation does not interest him any more. The only sexual outlet is to spend on his 'findomme'. Normal sex with a real life women does not interest him, even HB10's. The slave doesn't want sex anymore, he wants to spend his money on his domme so he can have an orgasm. These men have been conditioned to become addicted to giving money to their findommes.
Financial domination is a sickening practice that ruins lives, it's almost like a cult even. The findommes obviously have distorted value systems/morals and they manipulate men to their advantage, men who at first don't even know they are on the path to ruin.
Are those men losers? I'd say they are more the victim of a womans evil manipulative scheme. Obviously the men who undertake this are responsible for their actions, but when in the addictive fog that financial domination can induce, its very hard for a slave to say no to a findommes demands, especially when he has been conditioned so well to comply with her every whim.
What a great in-depth post, really has opened my eyes to exactly what they're doing...which makes it even more sickening, and me even more angry. These guys need help, I just wish they would join a forum like this, or some experienced PUA guru would be able to help them out
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