I understand your point, and have heard this elsewhere... but I have trouble actually coming up with questions like this. (Well, I struggle with coming up with questions in general.)

Maybe more examples would help people like me? And with actual wording... I mean, walking up to a girl and saying "Hi, what is your biggest passion" seems too socially awkward to me so I'm guessing there's something I'm missing.

Glad to see you're still smashing it out of the park with absolute gold Warped.

It's funny, it all boils down to common sense, and that's something 99% of men lose the second they see a hot woman. I've always maintained it's 95% unlearning, 5% learning, pardon the wack statistic.

Recently I have noticed a thing in myself I like to call "DMC mode" (Deep Meaningful Conversation) where girls I have met and known for an hour or so constantly remark how they feel they know me all my life and how it's so easy to talk to me, and as you say it's all about putting your foot forward, being open about your emotions yourself (basic Mark Manson ish) and she will follow suit as long as you're not a complete weirdo. It's also extremely powerful after the close and you're engaging in pillow talk. Get vibing with her about the juicy sh*t, and she's a guaranteed option for the future if you need one and you'll leave her in a super good place. This is especially useful for guys in college and what not where word spreads about you.

Girl has sex - Guy doesn't ditch her - Has a great convo with her - She feels great - She tells friends - Word spreads this guy is a cut above the rest - Profit - Rinse & Repeat

I'd like to note if I may the importance of humour, or more like the benefit of it to sort of break the deepness in a sense, as humour and laughing will make her feel even more comfortable in your presence and it's a nice break. Too often women can be scared of what they're telling a stranger so soon so it can be useful. Obviously that does not mean a comedy monkey spitting jokes seeking laughing as approval, but contextualised humour/teasing that relates naturally to the convo is absolutely gold in this situation.

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