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Is there something like being too dominant and can anyone relate to my story?
I recently started to take massive control of my own life. Instead of listening to feelings/conventions and advice from others, i now fuck girls like there's no tomorrow and spread my identity without any censure. THIS IS WHO I AM SO THIS IS WHAT I DO.
my dad
My dad has been doing this for years already and i recently started to see/accept the simmilarities between us. I now start to talk to him about girls and he brought up this story about a girl he's seeing. She's an extremely dominant/intelegent girl but my dad would never allow her to take control. Result; drama/fights
Me recently
Although i'm getting more and more succes with women i notice a change in the interactions i have. Where in the past i could get lost when interacting with a girl and just lose control, i now have the opposite. When i meet a girl (new or not) i enter her presence and just grab the lead and take control. Somethime this works out just fine and the girl would follow. But many many times they become transverse and the interaction becoms a competition. Or a battle for control. I have girls attracted to me but i undergo a lot of resisstance in general (bars/dates/fb's).
Just another girl i'm seeing
I've always loved girls with strong personality's and she's like that. The first time we met up together we got naked and exchanged orgasms(after a lot of LMR). We had no sex because we had no condoms. However she was glad we had no condoms(probably some more LMR shit).
So i went to her house last night (she invited me) and we had dinner with together her best friend/roommate. Afterwards (she knows i see other girls) we went to bed together and i wanted to turn her on. She became horny as hell but she told me she was in her period and i was not allowed to touch her pussy anywere near. I thought this was some LMR shit so i turned her on more. Again resistance and we now start to argue.
Her quotes
- You always want control
- Have you ever had a girl that didn't want sex with you?
- I believe you can fuck me like no other but i rather please myself.
- All you men are like blablabla
I spent hours and hours to make her give herself to me but she seem to have a principle. I turned into every possible guy to see what would break trough; sincere/soft/sensitive/rational/offencive/agressive and back to understanding and sencere. NOTHING WORKED
Questions
- Is this a girl that does not want to give herself to an arrogant/dominant guy like me?
- How can i handle myself being like this without things turning into battles all the time?
- Can anyone relate to this and see what i could change?
- I this is resistance what to do with it?
You have to CALIBRATE...
work on calibration you have to change and adapt to the type of girl and situation...Do not be so unflexible on whatever method you are following, read the girl and were she is coming from, understand the girl, and like a chess match, play the situation... Now if nothing is happening, is ok to walk away...
CHAT
