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PostPosted: Sat Apr 07, 2012 1:46 pm 
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Simple! what state you like to get into? And how do you do it?

do me a favor click on this link and go to page 33 please thanks, that would be your answer:

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I have to half agree to your link. Not everyone has great talent. Much like acting, great acting stands out, not everyone is gonna be able to do it.

For guys who have social anxiety RSD and most of the MM is accurate as a way to learn. There are not enough alpha males out there to be natural or direct. I have to say that betas possibly even have less desire to persue hot woman. They want to eat meat, just don't hunger enough to hunt for it.

After all most guys just want 1 gf.

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Simple! what state you like to get into? And how do you do it?

do me a favor click on this link and go to page 33 please thanks, that would be your answer:

http://www.aaronsleazy.com/files/Aaron. ... munity.pdf
I have to half agree to your link. Not everyone has great talent. Much like acting, great acting stands out, not everyone is gonna be able to do it.

For guys who have social anxiety RSD and most of the MM is accurate as a way to learn. There are not enough alpha males out there to be natural or direct. I have to say that betas possibly even have less desire to persue hot woman. They want to eat meat, just don't hunger enough to hunt for it.

After all most guys just want 1 gf.

I said page 33, this state stuff, is kind of crazy, if you ask me, i saw td yelling and screaming on otherwise a good seminar showing how he get in state on nights when he does not feel it, i thought it was ridiculous,for example, yesterday i was super tired and kind of physical hurt in one leg, i went out and i did not have to get into the so called state, i had a typical night, no different than any other night... Dude i am huge rsd fan, i post their videos here all the time.

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Having to rely on "state" is a crutch. The more and more you depend on state, the harder it will be to get into. Sate is overrated, period. You don't need to be in some sorta magical PU "state" to seduce women.

You don't need state to be:

- Confident
- Dominant
- Sexual
- Fun
Ect...

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Having to rely on "state" is a crutch. The more and more you depend on state, the harder it will be to get into. Sate is overrated, period. You don't need to be in some sorta magical PU "state" to seduce women.

You don't need state to be:

- Confident
- Dominant
- Sexual
- Fun
Ect...

You get the point.
Well you actually do need to be in a good state of mind. If you had a really bad and stressful day you won't be sexual and fun.

I agree, there's no 'PUA state', but there is a state you have to be in to project a good vibe and be attractive.


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Haha Does anyone even know what state is? Obviously not.

Well WM doesn't anyway! What do you mean 'rely' on state? Everybody is in state constantly.

State is just how you feel at any given time.

So when you chat up a girl, you have to be in a 'state', if you are in a logical, work mode then you probably won't be able to chat her up.
If you're in a decent state or MOOD then yes you will be able to chat her up.

WM, you mean momentum I'm taking it. Different thing all together.


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Having to rely on "state" is a crutch. The more and more you depend on state, the harder it will be to get into. Sate is overrated, period. You don't need to be in some sorta magical PU "state" to seduce women.

You don't need state to be:

- Confident
- Dominant
- Sexual
- Fun
Ect...

You get the point.
Well you actually do need to be in a good state of mind. If you had a really bad and stressful day you won't be sexual and fun.

I agree, there's no 'PUA state', but there is a state you have to be in to project a good vibe and be attractive.
^^^ what he said :)


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"state" stuff is silly and ridiculous, even for you mm fans, did i imagine or i read the wrong book when supposedly "style" did some type of sleep diet or some stupid shit like that, and he had multiple 3 some and girls going crazy over him, since he was half asleep and out of state... Again yesterday as an example, i was super tired, did not feel like going out, at all, I hurt my leg. I went out, one girl open me, make out, then hooked up with another girl, and another one that wanted to take me home... You want to believe if Santa claus got ahead and believe in this silliness... As much as i like rsd and tyler durden, i think he makes a lot of shit up and exaggerates, with that being said i like the way he break down human interactions, but sometimes he is super silly and contradicts himself.

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If you just paste "Mystery speaks about approach anxiety (subtitulado)" into youtube search go to the video with that exact title. Id link it but the site isn't letting me.
Mystery goes into his reality on anxiety approach and state.
Its a good video for coming to terms with the reasons for the way you feel (anxiety or fear).
anyway just check it out -N :)

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Skills - because you don't have issues with state, no one is allowed to?

I know I have state issues partly down to my job where I might spend 5 hours at a time without any human interaction. At the end of that, I struggle to string my words together let alone chat people up!


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Skills - because you don't have issues with state, no one is allowed to?

I know I have state issues partly down to my job where I might spend 5 hours at a time without any human interaction. At the end of that, I struggle to string my words together let alone chat people up!
Changing jobs is hard. If u spend 40 hours a week, going mad its hard to be congruent. I wish I had the balls to go for career change.

The best guys, love their jobs.

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Don't get me wrong; I love my job, but it's not big on human interaction. Over time that element will develop, but first I need to understand and gain experience in a huge range of things.

For me, I need a method to change from an introverted work state to an extroverted play state. Ideally very quickly so that when I head on lunch break I can be fully outgoing.


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Skills - because you don't have issues with state, no one is allowed to?

I know I have state issues partly down to my job where I might spend 5 hours at a time without any human interaction. At the end of that, I struggle to string my words together let alone chat people up!

i do have state issues like everybody else, the difference is that it does not affect my game nor should affect yours...I am trying to help, but do what you guys have to do... just contributing my opinion.

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Skills - because you don't have issues with state, no one is allowed to?

I know I have state issues partly down to my job where I might spend 5 hours at a time without any human interaction. At the end of that, I struggle to string my words together let alone chat people up!

i do have state issues like everybody else, the difference is that it does not affect my game nor should affect yours...I am trying to help, but do what you guys have to do... just contributing my opinion.
I don't know how state doesn't effect your game. Seriously you must have the best self control in the world. Extreme example here: if someone close to you died you wouldn't be in the right state to pick up women. Your state would be very upsetting and depressive ie a state which you can't pick up women with.

Now apply that on a smaller scale with a having a car crash and writing your Audi A8 off or having your house broken into. You would be pissed off, angry upset. You're in a bad state. You wouldn't happily go out and pick up woman.


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Skills - because you don't have issues with state, no one is allowed to?

I know I have state issues partly down to my job where I might spend 5 hours at a time without any human interaction. At the end of that, I struggle to string my words together let alone chat people up!

i do have state issues like everybody else, the difference is that it does not affect my game nor should affect yours...I am trying to help, but do what you guys have to do... just contributing my opinion.
I don't know how state doesn't effect your game. Seriously you must have the best self control in the world. Extreme example here: if someone close to you died you wouldn't be in the right state to pick up women. Your state would be very upsetting and depressive ie a state which you can't pick up women with.

Now apply that on a smaller scale with a having a car crash and writing your Audi A8 off or having your house broken into. You would be pissed off, angry upset. You're in a bad state. You wouldn't happily go out and pick up woman.
If someone close to me dies, i would not be picking up woman, nor any healthy human being...

In the second example similar things have happened when i go to the clubs, and/or no pick up related gym and martial arts, i leave it at the door... Does not affect me...By the way worst stuff than what you mentioned...like losing clients, jobs, gf etc... Your game should not be dependent on state...

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