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PostPosted: Thu Mar 29, 2012 5:35 pm 
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Blatantly asking for a kiss for in order to get a drink? Unless she's a dumb blonde she probably won't fall for that. You're basically telling her what's in it for me.
Exactly!!! She needs to be told that.

Separate yourself from the masses of idiots that are the reasons the game works to begin with!

Doing this is different - it's the direct approach that the AFCs will never have the balls to do - and I'll give my eye teeth pumpington is speaking from experience, not from 'textbook'. You can read the words of posters here and learn soon enough who actually learned the theory, rather than memorized the words....

^ yes that one pretty weak, is like prostitution central give me a kiss i give a drink, with that being said, if you have game, women will hardly ever if ever, will ask you to buy you a drink, now the best is to avoid to be in a situation were you are corner into buying a drink, i usually get distracted or play stupid, or if she said i got go get a drink i say go ahead i will be right here or whatever excuse, were i do not have to be in that situation... If a girl is out of the back asking you to buy her a drink either she is shit testing to see if you are softy, or she is not that interested... My case was unusual on the field report a broke as realtor, that has not gonne out in 10 years... I calibrated sooo wrong, so get some info... on the situation...

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Since I do day game, when a girl asks me to buy her a soda I usually ask her why. I'll say, I don't even know you yet. She'll introduce herself and slyly say, "Now that you know my name, can you buy me a soda?"

I'll say, "Nah. I don't feel like buying you one." Then I'll look around like she doesn't exists.

After 2 or 3 days, I'll get her some fresh milk and a can of Pringles when I see her around. She'll jump up and down with glee like a 7-year old kid.

It's a compliance test alright. But I look at it in a different angle. I do it for social proof and the emotional roller coaster ride. Because of this, I get invited to a lot of weddings, birthday parties, baptismals, and other get togethers.

Btw, I've noticed in my day game that some random stranger chick will do this after I catch her looking and giggling with her friends. I then buy some refreshments and go near the chick while eating my snacks pretending that I didn't see her. This way the chick opens me instead of me opening her. But you'll have to go to a regular venue that chicks frequent for this to work. I do this at a mall near two universities. :twisted:

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PostPosted: Sat Mar 31, 2012 2:42 pm 
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If I buy a girl a drink. It's my choice. I'm buying her a drink. Not her asking me to buy her a drink. I make the decisions. If a girl approaches me with buy me a drink I smile, look her up and down and say "You're barking up the wrong tree".

If you're at the bar and approached by her asking you to buy her a drink. Say "Can I have a tap water, this girl's too shy to get one her self" then tap the bar and walk off.

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I'll buy a girl a drink if I think the situation will actually go somewhere, but I don't want to be used by some skank who just wants free drinks. If a girl says, "buy me a drink first." what would you do? Or better yet, how would you get her to buy YOU a drink instead.
why not do a drink at your place.

Come on. Work together, not against each other. Never too early to start using that. Find commonalities and tell her you knew it coz you have really good people skills, hurr durr.


Anyway, at times I'll feel generous (pay-days, tax-returns, you name it) and she wants a beer, I'll tell her we're doing tequila instead. They could just leap at your face out of nowhere. Fun stuff.

Other than that, I wouldn't suggest actually paying for her beer if you do it to get something out of it. Shit's lame.
Yeah, well throwing money around like it's nothing adds up. Paying 5 bucks a for a shot of liquor plus tips is a ripoff than just buying a bottle and drinking that. Don't let girls walk all over you.
You forgot that not everyone is so uptight about money as you are.


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Buy me a drink first?

Why would I do that? To buy your attention? The price is too high, for your attention, I would be willing to pay, a chewing gum or some pocket lint.

Seriously, if a girl actually ask me for a drink, I lose interest. I dont see a big difference between that and a bum asking for change. She isnt gonna sleep with you, especially if you jump through her hoops so she is as uninteresting to you as the bum is. They have nothing to offer.

Now if a girl says, lets have a drink and talk, then I could imagine supplying the drinks while she supplies the topic. Because then it is on my terms.

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