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#22 - As a corollary to #19, every event in your life doesn't need to be shared on social media.

Gentlemen have real conversations, with real people, in the real world; otherwise, how would everyone see their charm? I'm not saying you have to abandon Facebook altogether, but if you find yourself posting a status every day or if the content of the status is less substantive than what you ate for lunch, try toning it down a bit and saving the really good stuff for in-person dialogue you'll share with the people who matter most.

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#23 - Don't talk if there's food in your mouth. Ever.

Eating is a social activity, a time when we enjoy good food and good conversation -just not at the same time. This is the numero uno eating rule. And something which more and more people are disregarding at the dinner table. The new age movies aren't helping this either with their display of the actor in variously disgusting chewing-talking positions.

Anyway, a gentleman always knows the etiquette of the table at which he's having his meal. If you eat like a pig, you will be thought of as a pig.

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#24 Always keep the conversation uplifting and positive.



If your conversations are always uplifting and positive then she will enjoy being around you. You will be her escape from the pressures and hardships of her everyday life. And that means you don't tell your problems when you are around with women.





#25 Always leave her wanting more. Spoon feed yourself to her. Let her get to know you slowly.


That's right you guys take your time and don't rush it, Even though you are dying to tell her your life story, let her get to know you slowly. (Don't tell her everything in one sitting LOL! )

She will treasure each little thing that she gets out of you. if she is dying to get to know you then she cannot reject you.

"If a woman is interested in you she will want to know more about you, it's that simple."




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25 Care when something is worth caring about

This is the most annoying trait in most modern PUAs, they dont care enough or care too much.

Dont care about everything since this is a trait of someone dying to fit in, thus a tryhard. But to not care about anything shows that you are not emotionally right in the head. When someone tell you something that is truly funny you laugh, when it is truly sad, you offer your sympathies. This is not just a game, you are interacting with another human being so show some humanity.

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#4 ... do not make excuses and say what is on your mind.. if you don't want to do something then do not do it. express how you feel in a confident and assertive way , nobody owns you.

#5 do not judge people , if you are really confident you wouldn't be judging people .. only insecure people and people who are anxious judge other people or judge change itself.

#6 Look people in the eye... a man never avoids conflict in conversation or body language.

#7 take responsiblity for your life , you are responsible for your own experience.. nobody can make you feel like shit - you shouldn't care - it's your perspective.

#8 accept everything the way it is... woman are woman and men are men, your life is what it is right now.. you cannot change if you do not accept things the way they are

#9 focus on important shit only...gentlemen do not focus on useless shit , they rather take descisions to learn from it and move on.

#10 stay cool when eveyones going insane... being in control means you are controlling yourself .. you shouldn't be out of control when it comes to certain situations.. a man takes responsibility and knows his potential.

#11 a gentlemen has a internal frame of reference and his own moral compas designed to go after win-win situations

#12 a man doesn't get attached or obsessed about results .. he rather place himself in enviroments where succes is possible... making succes inevitable.

#13 a man does not fear death, the death lies in giving up who you really are.
Thank you for this! I feel more manly after reading it

and 26. Consider everything you do carefully. Every action you make is a reflection of who you are and what you stand for
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#27 Be discrete with the use of emoticons.

Emoticons are a good way to express your emotion in flat lines of text. But, one needs to know where to use them and where to avoid them. As a rule of thumb, a gentleman avoids emoticons in all professional settings. A message to the client with a ":P" or a ";)" simply reeks of unprofessionalism and there will not be much to laugh out loud (LOL) about when you lose your account, and in some cases, your job.

Like everything, emoticons can be used in the situations where it is accepted.

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#28 The golden rule of style is to match your socks with your trousers,not your shoes.

Frankly one of the most common mistakes men make. Never mind the "hip" crowd who completely ignore the basic rules of dressing.

Gentlemen, at least now you know what to match with what.

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#29
Let things go. Insults, flakes, etc. Big deal. Just let it go, dont be that guy who keeps everyone discussing how they have wronged you over and over.

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I like #29, that's great, Ezo.

#30 Live by your own rules

Many guys seem to think that there is a universal rules for every single tiny thing. Once you understand the big picture, throw the rules out the window, you know what you want, don't let social conditioning boundaries get in the way.
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31: A Gentleman Wears A Watch
I'm 23, I'm not against technology, I'm not against advancement, but, there is a clear structure of fashion, and a certain authority that a gentleman should seek to have by wearing a wrist watch.
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#32 The "Black Tie" Rules.

"Black Tie" doesn't always have to be a tuxedo, but it can be a dark suit. A gentleman always considers what his partner is wearing and lets her steal the show, opting instead for the understated.

Don't go frilly, colorful or brash. It will just make you stand out and in a negative light at that. Wear something classic and subtle.

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#33: Speaks Little, Says A Lot
A Gentleman always keeps his answers short, never brags, never gives more of himself than he has to. As Chili Palmer said in Get Shorty, "I'm not gonna say more than I have to, if that!"
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