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I didn't read the post, just the title. And I disagree.

3 day rule is gold, generally. Especially with hotties. (HB8's, 9s, and 10's)

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3 day rule is horrible especially with hotties because they probably have more people hitting on them, hence you become a blur and then they flake.
^Fail.

A hottie is telling you the 3 day rule is, generally speaking, gold. You call her before then, you'll be like every average guy... a blur.
^Fail.

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Truth of it is this, Kobe is right, if you wait so many things can come up. Besides that, if all it takes is you calling her before 3 days to make her think your like every other "average" guy then you probably are like every other average guy.

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Just to add my other .02 cents:

Spending so much time planning the "perfect" time to call is putting WAY to much effort into this. Also, setting YOUR schedule of contact around her is also a bit needy and really lame.

Put it another way, Brad Pitt is walking down the street, sees a chick, goes up and gets her number. Lets pretend she doesn't know who Brad Pitt is (I know, I know... everyone knows Brad Pitt).

You really think Brad is gonna wait three days to call her if he likes her? No. Brad will call her when ever he wants to because not only does he know he is a cool guy with things to offer women and it would be her loss if she ignored the call but also because he isn't going to place a whole lot of importance into it. It just a call and its just a woman you probably don't know all that well on the other end.

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3 day rule is horrible especially with hotties because they probably have more people hitting on them, hence you become a blur and then they flake.
^Fail.

A hottie is telling you the 3 day rule is, generally speaking, gold. You call her before then, you'll be like every average guy... a blur.
^Fail.

Taking advice from someone who is more interested in your money than you success.

Truth of it is this, Kobe is right, if you wait so many things can come up. Besides that, if all it takes is you calling her before 3 days to make her think your like every other "average" guy then you probably are like every other average guy.
^Fail

You quoted me saying fail, but then you said "Kobe is right."


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A hottie is telling you the 3 day rule is, generally speaking, gold. You call her before then, you'll be like every average guy... a blur.

First three days my be a good rule if you have an extremely good connection and are able to occupy her mind for a full three days....However, the vast majority of interaction (even by gurus) are unable to alter a girls state on this kind of level after a pickup. The information I gave was based and adapted from broad spectrum market research and psychological evaluations and is taught in both negotiation and sales strategies all over the world, and was adapted to my strategy and has shown far better results than the typical three day rule that every other chode fallows (like girls cant see past the three day rule).


That being said, if you want to do what some chick orange tanned chick with fake tit's says, by all means best of luck with your game brother...why don't you buy her a drink while your at it. But chances are I'm gonna be inside her when you call on Tuesday at half passed 10 ;)

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A hottie is telling you the 3 day rule is, generally speaking, gold. You call her before then, you'll be like every average guy... a blur.

First three days my be a good rule if you have an extremely good connection and are able to occupy her mind for a full three days....However, the vast majority of interaction (even by gurus) are unable to alter a girls state on this kind of level after a pickup. The information I gave was based and adapted from broad spectrum market research and psychological evaluations and is taught in both negotiation and sales strategies all over the world, and was adapted to my strategy and has shown far better results than the typical three day rule that every other chode fallows (like girls cant see past the three day rule).


That being said, if you want to do what some chick orange tanned chick with fake tit's says, by all means best of luck with your game brother...why don't you buy her a drink while your at it. But chances are I'm gonna be inside her when you call on Tuesday at half passed 10 ;)
Judging by the way you talk. . .


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A hottie is telling you the 3 day rule is, generally speaking, gold. You call her before then, you'll be like every average guy... a blur.

First three days my be a good rule if you have an extremely good connection and are able to occupy her mind for a full three days....However, the vast majority of interaction (even by gurus) are unable to alter a girls state on this kind of level after a pickup. The information I gave was based and adapted from broad spectrum market research and psychological evaluations and is taught in both negotiation and sales strategies all over the world, and was adapted to my strategy and has shown far better results than the typical three day rule that every other chode fallows (like girls cant see past the three day rule).


That being said, if you want to do what some chick orange tanned chick with fake tit's says, by all means best of luck with your game brother...why don't you buy her a drink while your at it. But chances are I'm gonna be inside her when you call on Tuesday at half passed 10 ;)
Judging by the way you talk. . .


You're a virgin.
Let's not get into attacking each other here. If the three day rule works for you, good on you, no one style or way of doing things works best for everyone. But ask yourself, why would calling her any sooner than three days make her think you're just another average guy. If you're actually really fun, genuine and exciting she won't think that anyway.

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Judging by the way you talk. . .
You're a virgin.

Get to know me a little bro, I've been in it a long time, and if nothing less, I've been with my current girlfriend for coming up on a year now. I'm looking to pass on what I've learned in field and in my studies over the years. I am always open to other opinions but I'm not too open to Keyboard jockeys using youtube videos as a rebuttal, for the good of everyone on here please pass on information that you know to be tried and true based on infield experience and provide a description as to why it works .


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Judging by the way you talk. . .

You're a virgin.
And dumb ass post of the day goes to...

But on topic. To me it really doesn't matter when I call women up. I have an I don't give a fuck personality so I call the next day, same night, a week later.

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Judging by the way you talk. . .

You're a virgin.
And dumb ass post of the day goes to...

But on topic. To me it really doesn't matter when I call women up. I have an I don't give a fuck personality so I call the next day, same night, a week later.

Kobe is a cool dude, be decent to each other, a week later you may lose the girl most of the time...

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Take it easy guys, lets get this thread back to where it should be.. calm the fuck down

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^Fail.

A hottie is telling you the 3 day rule is, generally speaking, gold. You call her before then, you'll be like every average guy... a blur.
^Fail.

Taking advice from someone who is more interested in your money than you success.

Truth of it is this, Kobe is right, if you wait so many things can come up. Besides that, if all it takes is you calling her before 3 days to make her think your like every other "average" guy then you probably are like every other average guy.
^Fail

You quoted me saying fail, but then you said "Kobe is right."
^Fail
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everyone is flaming, I like skills 360's idea, call when you want,
personally, I like following up with my numbers, as soon as possible, but then again according to FAKE-TITS-MAGEE, she recommends that for direct day game, so the 3 day rule is most likely not applicable

it is the importance you hold on her mind that is ''important'' not the amount of time you make her wait and if the 3 day wait is congruent, then it is congruent if it is not it is like saying, this guy is needy, make him wait 3 days to call her, when they meet up, or if he keeps texting her, she will never catch on that he is needy, THE 3 DAY RULE IS EPIC AND WILL DISGUISE YOU, SHE WILL NEVER SEE THROUGH YOUR NEEDINESS, guess what she eventually if enough time is spent get to see what you are like, it is going to happen sooner or later, 3day rule or not, might as well just follow up early, if she likes you, she likes you, 2 extra days is not going to give you magical powers


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i would say
1. The longer you stayed in set, the more you can wait.
2. The shorter the set time was, the quicker your first text should be
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1. The more connection you made, the more you can wait
2. The little connection you made, the quicker your first text should be.
But the main question is why wait three days?
There are no solid reasons for that.
And then the next question is, why text before three days?
Because
1. There is no solid reason for waiting. The only case that i can think of where you can wait 3 days is when you went hardcore on the girl and activated her anti-slut defence, in these kind of cases, its better to wait as texting quickly would further activate her anti-slut defence.
2. Texting quick lets you know your chances with the girl quick. Why wait 3 days to know that a girl is not gonna sleep with you?
3. The quicker you text, the quicker you start building comfort and connection and becoming a part of her routine life.
Hope that clears it

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Kobe is a cool dude, be decent to each other, a week later you may lose the girl most of the time...
You missed the point... I don't care when I call and was agreeing with you.

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I fail to see the relevance against the 3 day rule. Generally the 3 day rule was established for those trying to "mimic" men who were truly busy. And while I agree "faking" like you are busy for 3 days is generally bad, for those who are genuinely busy and swamped there is nothing wrong with it. For those trying to "fake" like they are busy, maybe you need to get some legit hobbies. The most powerful thing in my opinion is having someone call you and you say, "Oh I'll call you back I'm doing some yard work." That's much better than say, "Oh sorry I couldn't call you I was busy." Not only does the latter spell fake, it also spells insincere, time waster, and a plethora of other bad things.

Just my idea on the subject.


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