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no she did get what she wanted by behaving the wrong way. And allowing her to acting up was to let her throw out the emotional garbage that she was holding inside. And by doing that she also realised how stupid she is behaving. And once she had nothing left to say her mind was almost blank, she didnt know what to say next but i was still with her. Then she suddenly realised how stupid she had behaved and felt more attraction for me as i had passed her shit tests. And now her understanding ? Yeah she often doesn but sometimes not. No one is perfect. Yeah? And from my personel point of view, a girls shit testing you or fighting with you is perfectly ok but the question is, are you strong enough to handle that shit? Or are you gonna be like, "shit, fuck her, i dnt want her, she is a mess, fuck" is it really what you want or its a sign of your enterlly being weak? Sometimes what we thinking would be alpha is infact is our eternal weakness but our ego doesnt let us see the reality. My dear its not a matter of a girl, its the matter of us being a pua, our reading a lot and practicing. Should we really be weak enough to say,"fuck whateva, i dnt care" sometimes its good but think about it she often doesn but sometimes not. No one is perfect. Yeah? And from my personel point of view, a girls shit testing you or fighting with you is perfectly ok but the question is, are you strong enough to handle that shit? Or are you gonna be like, "shit, fuck her, i dnt want her, she is a mess, fuck" is it really what you want or its a sign of your enterlly being weak? Sometimes what we thinking would be alpha is infact is our eternal weakness but our ego doesnt let us see the reality. My dear its not a matter of a girl, its the matter of us being a pua, our reading a lot and practicing. Should we really be weak enough to say,"fuck whateva, i dnt care" sometimes its good but think about it
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no, it is about what do you want to put up with, are you ok with a girl making up irrational drama all the time?, obviously once in a while it is not a big deal and you can humour it, but if it becomes a regular behavior and all you do is repeat ''OK'' and just keep agreeing with her and explaining yourself, you sort of set yourself up for that to happen more often, a little boy, has a tempertantrum when he is young and gets what he wants, he will be more prone to throw temper tantrums, a simple, LISTEN, is this really the issue?, is this really that important?, ill talk to you later, give her time to cool off then re-contact, probably just her PMSing, if you disagree then you are probably right in your situation, it is your girlfriend, and you know her the best, only you can tell what is right for what situation, and there are thousands of correct ways to handle it, and billions of incorrect ways to handle it, just handle it the best you can
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