Well, I've been burning myself with just licking my fingers and trying it

I hate getting shit on for being a smoker! I don't do it in the field because so many people feel this way. In some venues it works for me to smoke, and others its better I don't. However, if you don't want her bro, J SMOOTH will be glad to assist!

Just kidding man, if you can't be with a smoker, because it bothers you so bad then don't. I personally wouldn't let it stop me from running game. As someone said before you're not marrying her.

J SMOOTH

I know, but in this thread I was just looking for 1) Would smoking make you stop dating a girl, and 2) Opinions on those negs etc. If it depends on the other factors, I should probably start a new thread taking everything into account.

+1, it depends upon the neg. If you make a character judgment about her, then such a neg obviously isn't a great idea. I think we can separate the person from a chosen activity. I know plenty of people that smoke that are great people. And I know plenty of people that don't smoke that are rotten to the core.

Beyond that, if you don't like smoking, don't do it.

If you don't like smokers and choose to judge their entire character or worthiness as a friend, etc.. on this one behavior.., sounds like a personal problem to me.

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Nope, but then I smoke on occasion too.
Nothing wrong with a smoking neg in my opinion, as long as it's delivered respectfully and with care. Something along the lines of 'I like to see you healthy, and I don't smoke, why don't you lay off those things around me'.

Her move.

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Licking them isn't enough, you gotta get the WET. If you've ever put out a lit candle, then you'll know that licking your fingers isn't enough, so maybe practice with that. You want a barrier of liquid, just short of dripping almost.

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With smokers I found it easier to just leave them alone all together or throw in quick negs then drop the subject. In this case I would only choose 10's in this aspect, anything less (unless you are a smoker yourself) is a waste of time. I would use any of the lines listed above then run a routine. You would be surprised how many girls get passed up for smoking. I just figured it will increase my chances of getting laid.

Basically what it comes down to, isn't, "What do you do?" It's are you ok with a smoker? If yeah, then proceed as usual. If not, then showing that you aren't interested will give you plenty of credit if what you're saying about her being the "hottest girl" is true. You could try to change her, but that's usually a long process, not an overnight thing when it comes to smoking.

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If this girl told me she had AIDS, I'd have to sleep on it before breaking it off. "Y'know, modern medicine is working miracles...I did like that play Rent..."
I don't expect to. In terms of whether I'm interested, it's immaterial. I figure the best move is just to not acknowledge it. I have enough to tease her about, and have gotten in enough quality DHV'ing that I'm making real progress, no reason to piss her off if she doesn't like being bothered about it.

Good luck, let us know how it works out.

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Personally, i think its kinda sexy when a HB8+ smokes. Makes them a bit of a "bad girl". Espically when its a girl that looks like a good girl, then its like "good girl gone bad". LOL.

However, I only like girls that do it once in a while (Like when they go out, drink, etc). I definatly dont like girls that smoke all the time, thats gross. It definatly wouldnt work for me since I go running a lot. Smoking all the time is like drinking all the time. Not a good thing.

I guess it kinda enhances a girl, if she is a UG it makes her more of a UG, if she is a HB8+ it makes her hotter. Aproaches in the smoking area's at bars are always very easy, even if u dont smoke or want a smoker. The non-smoker friends that follow the smokers outside are usually bored and cold (in the winter), so u can become there alie and hang out with them while their friend smokes. Done this a bunch, works like a charm.

Kinoesclator

She's a smoker, what do you do?

You give her something else to smoke on..

And keep the lighter away from her.

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If she's a 10, I would simply deal with it for the time being, but by no means would I stick around long. For the following reasons:

-no woman is worth lung cancer
-smoking is a leading factor that eliminate cellulite
-makes their boobs sag
-little stamina in bed

As a general rule I would avoid them, but if I'd found out while in, say, the 4th hour, then f*** it. I've worked too hard already. I'll have my fun for awhile and leave.

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-no woman is worth lung cancer..

You don't have to smoke to get lung cancer. Auto exhaust, radon gas, other cancers, genetics, household and other chemicals and other environment pollutants are also risk factors.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/a ... ge_id=1770

-smoking is a leading factor that eliminate cellulite

What?

-makes their boobs sag

Age and gravity makes boobs sag.

-little stamina in bed

Women don't need stamina in bed.

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Second-hand smoke is just more fuel on the fire. I personally do not want to risk it.

Mis-worded; smoking increases cellulite, which makes this happen:
http://www.radiancesanantonio.com/image ... uction.jpg

Age, gravity, and nicotine.

And meh, I want her to do some work in the sack. And when she does preferably she wouldn't have to stop for breath every 30 seconds.

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