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To Joe's comment since it can help other guys...Your game shouldnt go down in a relationship.
Almost as ridiculous as the guy talking about not leaving his apartment while going off topic on random tangent with his two cents on game.
Lets put it this way Neo; if your girlfriend cheats, dumps you, you "mutually breakup," she shows up to the bar you are at; guaranteed, she is getting more attention then you. This is not even debatable. Women do not drop in ability to get guys until they worry about their biological clock and get desperate. Even if she packs on weight, men will still be showing her more attention then women will be showing you.
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Picking up girls is not a difficult task for most guys. It's approach, be somewhat cool, don't be needy, be attractive, make moves and be good at escalation/sex.
And yet, here you are Mr monogamous. That is the thing with PU. Everyone has their two cents. Nobody is putting up vids like Zyzz or Yaboydave. People in PU on forums never do that or they put up stuff that is not comparable or even close to Dave or Zyzz and everyone attacks the guy in the video with their two cents. Lets assume V still goes out. The other two do not go out; one does not leave his home and the other thinks game is flirting with his gf. What?
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The difficulty comes for most guys in that they don't look at what's not working and adjust accordingly. Instead of working out, most stay slobs. Instead of working on basic social skills, most focus on more routines and more approaches. Where guys lose skills in a relationship is when they make the girl the center of their lives. The lose the simple skills that got the girl in the first place so it's harder when they leave one. They stopped dressing nicely, they stopped doing the fun things they'd do with friends, they stop being aggressive in bed so as not to offend her. Hence, when the girl is gone, all the little things have already withered away months ago.
That is like me saying my game went up because I flirted with a fwb. The one thing I can agree with you is that most guys do not stick with this consistently be it work, college, monogamous relationship no diss, and a variety of other excuses. Most guys become weak once in the company of a relationship and their feelings take over.
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Every rs you get into, should make you better when you leave it.
it should but, this is not the way of things most times. After a breakup, are you always better off because you dated her or spent how much of your life with a specific woman? What I tend to do is just enjoy it for what it is. Acknowledge that the time is fragile, it is not necessarily forever (even if you were married or to spend the rest of your life with someone till you die). After a failed marriage, would you say men are better off?
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If you got a 7 and were fucking her, you should be accustomed to 7's and only attracted to 8's and aboves now.
I know what you are saying but, I disagree. I was never about chasing down just looks. If you are going to settle down with a girl, she should be 10/10 on the inside first and foremost. In terms of looks, if you are attracted to her, who gives a fuck what anybody else thinks. If you dropped a woman who was better looking than your girl but, she was not 10/10 on the inside, even if she was a 10 in looks, you would have downgraded. This is the case with "trophy wives."
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Your less impressed by 7's, they feel this, so they're easier to get. Even something as simple as style, a good gf will want you to be your best. Chicks have taught me how to dress better, so even when shit doesnt work out, I'm getting more compliments on my style and its easier to get the next one. I look back at the gf I considered a 10 years ago and she's a 7 now. It's like if you were learning guitar, would you learn more if you practiced on a guitar at your friends place 4 times a week, or if you had your own? Some guys may not like relationships, and that's fine. Do what makes you happy. But don't be afraid to lose your skills if you do it right and never forget who's number one...you. Every guy who says they lost skills after a relationship, can admit that it wasnt being in a relationship that did it, it was because they neglected parts of who they were. As a side note, if you are new to PU, my advice wouldnt be to jump into a rs. Learn how to interact with women to the point where you have some REAL options, and then keep being that attractive guy, not for her, but for yourself.
Its cool women may want to talk a bout fashion or style but, I never let that dictate or change what I am about. Its different if they get a gift or buy me an outfit.
Anyway, this is pointless. We simply do not agree. Contrary to the unpopular opinion I provide, i would rather wing with 007 than the three I have responded to because of his ambition to get better. Its cool you have a gf but, if you are not going out, I do not see how you would even maintain it. Even if you did, you have something to lean back on for security. If you are single, you have to do that and pursue regardless.